I'm scared I'm going to fail in life please answer?!


Question: I have made the choice that I'm going back to school. No more running away from my problems. The thing is I'm scared. like I started thinking what if I fail? what if I don't do good? what if I lose everything I'm going to work so hard for? OMG How can I stop thinking about it and just do the best I can?


Answers: I have made the choice that I'm going back to school. No more running away from my problems. The thing is I'm scared. like I started thinking what if I fail? what if I don't do good? what if I lose everything I'm going to work so hard for? OMG How can I stop thinking about it and just do the best I can?

AND what if you do great and make millions wouldn't you feel dumb?

Just that, stop thinking and worrying about and just do the best you can, try to have confidence in yourself and your abilities, and when you feel like you need extra help in school, ask for it, most schools have people to help when you get to a rough spot.

Don't be scared. Just think your doing this for yourself. To better yourself.

go back to school .if u find out that you are not doing that good, get extra help or work with people from school.. some people know things better than others. and just think. you are goind to school so you can stop worring and stuff. so go back and doo good. good luck

you know what? i can so relate to what you are saying. you are probably an overachieving perfectionist who would be the LEAST likely person to fail. there is an old saying that "fear is the one thing that can make it happen." everytime you start to feel this way, just repeat this prayer to yourself quietly.."God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to know the difference." it has made a huge difference in my comfort level when facing anxiety-inducing events...btw, i'm not an addict. i just love this prayer, and it works for me. best wishes.

Theodore Roosevelt said, "It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed." So what if you try and fail? What's the worst thing that could happen? You'd just have to try again, right?

We all have insecurities and fears. At times we are more insecure than others. There is an old cliche that says "one day at a time" but it is very true and another is the longest journey begins with the first step. Just keep in mind you are as good as anyone else on this planet. By being alive you have completed the hardest task on your life journey . You must live that life in a positive way until the last step of your personal life journey.

God is the answer to your problems and he is the healer of worry. Don't be afraid. If you have enough courage to GO BACK to school, you have enough courage to GET GOOD GRADES in school. You have to tame your mind. This is the hardest thing for people to do. You can't just let it wander off into wherever, you have to tame it and keep it where you want it to be. And don't be negative!! If we didn't have negativity, then the world would be a 110% better place than it is now.

I hope this helped!!
God bless,
With Christian Love,
Christina Songlee

First of all, redefine "failure." There is no failure in trying. What's the worse thing that can happen? If you "fail" a subject, you can take it again. Chances are, if you apply yourself, you will find that each course you take expands your mind and gives you a thirst for more knowledge. You will discover interests that you didn't even know you had because you were not aware that they existed.

I returned to college after being out for 15 years. What I found was that my head was in a different place from where it was when I was 18 or 19. I was more aware of what I wanted from my life, even though I wasn't sure what my degree plan would be. I took general liberal arts courses that gave me exposure to a variety of subjects. I found that the more I learned, the more I wanted to learn. I maintained a 4.0 average for the first time in my life, not because I was "smarter" but because I was more focused on my goals in life.

Remember, the biggest failure in life is not trying. If you don't go back, where will you be in 5 years? Exactly where you are not. At least if you go back to school, you have a chance of changing that. Don't be your own worst enemy, but rather your strongest advocate for what you want and need in life.

Good luck to you.

yes u can just spot thinking what if that are what if this. all u have to do is try ur best and set ur mind to what u want to do and keep going until u get it.





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