I think i suffer? is this possible?!
Question: the fear of sex...~
i was exposed to porn at 15 and i continue to watch it..i had some panick attacks because of it...but the worst part is that i fainted when i saw the doctor talking about intimate stuff with my friend..she was talking about some and the room blacked out and i couldn't breath i got scared!!
what does this mean? what caused this crazy fear! i shake!
PLEASE ANY ANSWER IS APPRECIATED!
Answers: the fear of sex...~
i was exposed to porn at 15 and i continue to watch it..i had some panick attacks because of it...but the worst part is that i fainted when i saw the doctor talking about intimate stuff with my friend..she was talking about some and the room blacked out and i couldn't breath i got scared!!
what does this mean? what caused this crazy fear! i shake!
PLEASE ANY ANSWER IS APPRECIATED!
There is some great wisdom above me... porn is not REAL sex, not about genuine affection, respect, caring or the expression of love it is intended to be, but only about bodily functions and in the extreme, at that.
i suspect you watch it BECAUSE you have some concerns about sex and likely not the other way around, tho i wouldn't swear to anything.
But no one can know the real origins of your fear except you... and You DO know, you just may not be telling yourself.
There is a very interesting study that shows that women often wind up with sexual interests that mirror the porn that was present in the home they grew up in... and get this... this is true whether they were ever actually exposed to it OR NOT.
That has to lead me to believe that the attitudes of the males in our homes as we grow up affect women to a deep degree, even when those attitudes are unconscious to both parties.
Sexuality is a very complicated matter. i am assuming you have not had sex yet, and hoping you wait... for many reasons.
But i would also hope that you would start working on this problem now, as the longer you wait the harder it becomes.
Take a trusted adult into your confidence and if you can get some professional counseling that would be great.
And in the meantime...CUT OUT THE PORN. It is not helping your perception and will not give you an accurate expectation of the real thing.
People can and do overcome this kind of phobia every day, sweet heart, so please don't add more worry to it. You can be everything you want to be, including beautifully sensual and sexual one day. i promise...
gentle thoughts.
No youre not weird...I suffeer from that too. I am afraid of the noise, of hearing people doing that. :P
dont watch porn anymore! if you want to talk, email me.
just stop watching porn
porn is false reality. its all fantasy. it will eventually corrupt you and could lead to problems later on in life with marriage,kids,life,etc...try to stop watching it. i will say a prayer for you. jesus christ can take the urge away from you. all u have to do is ask!!!!!!
Porn isn't a very accurate portrail of sex. It's all coriagraphed and stylizied.
Your fear may affect your future relationships. I would recommend that you talk to your parents about it, and seek treatment.
You should be afraid of sex because of what diseases you can possibly get... but I imagine you're more afraid of the intimacy or something? I'm not sure what porn has to do with it. Was it violent pornography? Plainly, you are not ready for sex... so don't pressure yourself into anything. When you have matured more and come to grips with your own sexuality you will be fine.