How come I am only attracted to older guys?!


Question: I am only attracted to guys in their 40s and up. I don't know why this is. I also get alot of trouble because of it. I tend to like guys who are successful, so people think that I am a gold digger. Not the case. Also, the older guys tend to play me and take advantage of me. What is wrong with me?


Answers: I am only attracted to guys in their 40s and up. I don't know why this is. I also get alot of trouble because of it. I tend to like guys who are successful, so people think that I am a gold digger. Not the case. Also, the older guys tend to play me and take advantage of me. What is wrong with me?

I've found that women in general usually go for men a bit older than themselves, although there's obviously exceptions. Each life stage has its own 'vibe' and everyone is attracted to a different one. A lot of women find themselves attracted to men 10+ years older then themselves because its just a better connection for them. It doesn't mean they're wierd or have issues neccesarily. However, be aware that men who date women much younger may view it as a 'fling', rather than a serious relationship, so if that's what you're seeking you might have to look hard.

There's nothing wrong with you, everybody has their own taste in men.

you dont like men you like money too much

Did you have a bad relationship with your father? OR was he not around?
That may be the answer to your question.

Stay away from older men...I should know...I am your prefered age group of older men...and I had just broken off with a younger woman...she is still showing up and driving me crazy...perhaps thats what you girls...(not women) like to do.

nothing wrong with you at all .
we older men seem to have that attraction to the younger gals for sum reason .
maybe we are a challenge for them or maybe they just like the tender lovers we can be .
we do give more respect i think then the younger gents .
all in all we give you a feeling of being safe and needed .
if your getting taken advantage of then you need an older gent Lol

I bet you just feel more comfortable around them. Most men at that age already have their careers going, own a home, have established good credit, and offer many years of life experience. Many guys take a lot longer to mature than women do.

hmm, strange. I'm not attracted to older men with money. I'm 40, own my own house and a beamer and I'm only attracted younger women.





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