Bulimic has a crush on a guy?!
Question: a girl with bulimia who has had it for several years and is on her way to recovery for the first year has developed a crush on a guy she knows pretty well. he makes her laugh and is really sweet! the problem is that he has no idea she is bulimic. she likes himh and he probably likes her back. should she tell him shes bulimic or keep it a secret and pretend nothing is wrong?
Answers: a girl with bulimia who has had it for several years and is on her way to recovery for the first year has developed a crush on a guy she knows pretty well. he makes her laugh and is really sweet! the problem is that he has no idea she is bulimic. she likes himh and he probably likes her back. should she tell him shes bulimic or keep it a secret and pretend nothing is wrong?
I think that honesty is always best and if they are truly friends he'll support her and try to help her with her recovery. And if she pretends that nothing's wrong with her she might not get that much better cause she'll almost be denying that she has a problem. I think that if he's a good guy then he won't run away or anything and i think telling him would be better. But that's my opinion!
She should tell him.
If he really likes her, he'll respect her and support her through the entire thing. He won't judge her or be "weirded out"....and if he does, that just goes to show he isn't worth it, and she should find someone else.
Good luck and congratulations on overcoming it :)
TELL DUH!!!
First of all, congratulations to "her" on being on the way to recovery. That's awesome; I know from friends that it is a hard thing to battle, but SO worth it.
I would say that if she is not very seriously dating right now that it's probably okay not to bring it up. I'm not saying she should totally hide it or lie about it, but if she really is doing well and not symptomatic at all then there is really no need for him to know right at first. Just enjoy getting to know each other and have fun. Eventually, if things get more serious I think she should share it partly because she would probaby feel more comfortable with him knowing and by that point it wouldn't be as hard to tell him either.
Let me guess.
you're the bulimic girl?
if you're not, why are you stalking her life? lol.
anyways. as they develop a realtionship
she or you will have a moment when
she'll tell him.