I need help! my parents found cocaine?!


Question: i desperatly need help, my mom found a bunch of things in my room
im only 16 in 3 days..
she found like a few emptys, a few bottles of vodka, bong, empty coke baggies and the worst of all a note saying " u dont want a nother line, ul regret it in the morning"
i am Not addicted to anything

my mom comes home tommorow and she said we need to talk
how can i make this the least awkward, what do i say
should i start the conversation
help me please
im really really stressed
and i feel like doing something stupid
i cant deal with this
im such an idiot


Answers: i desperatly need help, my mom found a bunch of things in my room
im only 16 in 3 days..
she found like a few emptys, a few bottles of vodka, bong, empty coke baggies and the worst of all a note saying " u dont want a nother line, ul regret it in the morning"
i am Not addicted to anything

my mom comes home tommorow and she said we need to talk
how can i make this the least awkward, what do i say
should i start the conversation
help me please
im really really stressed
and i feel like doing something stupid
i cant deal with this
im such an idiot

So you were trying to fit in. The pain of rejection by your peers was too much. So you did street drugs to show you were worthy of friendship. But they are dangerous ones + you know it. You could tell her the truth. It's not like yer a mass murderer. What's the worst that could happen? Are you afraid she'll stop you from using drugs? If that's the case, you may have a psychological addiction already. So look at that one, k? Your friends are not vegetables yet. MIne are. Only cause I'm older than you. Some have to be on meds for the rest of their lives from it just to be barely normal. That's the ones that are still alive. Maybe you need to go to another school or home school? I know its a social thing.But some cliques do drugs and some don't. You were afraid of rejection I know. You need help. And this too shall pass dude. Just don't panic or over-react, ok? Be lucky you are alive right now. And as for your friends, blame you non-drug use on yer Mom. That ususally works. :-)

You're a dumbass, dude. What are you doing with you're life? You're just gonna have to admit it to your mom and promise yourself to get your life back on track.

Your mother loves you, remember that. If you are not addicted yet you are well on your way to getting there. You need to take some time and decide what you want your future to be like. If you don't want to spend all your time wondering where your next high is coming from you need to stop using now. I work with addicts everyday, thats my job. I don't want to see you fall into that rut. So easy to get into and hell to get out of. It happens before you even realize it's happening. Be honest with your mom, tell her what all you have been doing. She will be mad as heck but she just wants the best for you. Do you want the best for yourself?

Yeah, you're an idiot, with idiot friends. If you can even call them friends. Get away from THEM and the DRUGS now, while you can, before it totally screws up your life. I know some people in their 40's who still can't do anything right in life because of poor choices they mad when they were teens.

Too much partying. No responsibility.
Getting arrested. Getting their kids taken away.

Tell her you make a mistake. Like most teenagers do, Believe me I did also. Tell her it will never happen and offer her to drug test you when she wants.

If this do take a turn for the worse. Please go to the hospital for Chemical Dependecy Mental Health.

Apologize and tell her you know it was wrong and won't use any of that again because you know it can screw up your life.

Tell her that you will accept any punishment she sees fit to give you. Face up to it and accept responsibility and she's less likely to come down on your very hard.

and then follow through and stay off the drugs and booze and consider yourself lucky that you aren't dead.

Chill out. Your mom found out the stupid stuff you were doing. Be honest with her and let her help you through this. Stay off drugs you know you shouldn't be messing with it or you wouldn't be so upset.

"I know I made a mistake,drugs and alcohol are not the right way of dealing with my problems. I feel like an idiot. I promise I'll try as hard as I can and I will not drink or do drugs because I know its not right. Im very sorry."


Say that.

just start right off by explaining that it wasn't you. tell her how all of that got in there.if she doesn't believe you, then prove to her that you are not addicted. just breath, it'll be over soon

your in a bad situation, and you should tell your mom the truth and say honestly. i am not addicted any more, an i will stop. I would really apreciate if you let me handle this on my own. I understand where your at, and good luck to you.

all of the fault is on you buddy. i do not know what to tell you. whats the worst that can happen i guess? at least she is not freaking out about it and is taking it calmly. you should not do that stuff though.

Instead of everyone calling you an idiot here, think of it this way...how would you feel when you have kids in the future...and you happen to find all that stuff in their room....people won't say your bad...they'll just say you have a parent who can't teach their kid...I don't know if you want people saying that about your parents..but damn...don't give her a hard time when shes already making money trying to support you through school and life.

Its just morals man, and karma. Think straight.

I know this isn't the main point but cocaine is very expensive, and I'm guessing you're putting a lot of your parents' hard earned money up your nose. Anyway the convo will be awkward, but you have to do it.

you shouldn't of been doing that crap in the first place, you're lucky she didn't call the cops on your ***. you should of known your parents could find out instead of flipping out for your own stupidity.

Yo dudette you like totally are busted dudette. Oh man , what a totally total bummer dudette. Want some totally far out advice. Quit the blow,quit drinking and quit smoking. I know I didn't listen to that advice when I was 15 (18 now) but it's empty and stupid.I wnet from wed to psychedelics,shrooms ,acid and salvia. Through my journeys I found god and all sorts of alternate universes. The conclusion after all that is this, you can stay high forever, if you get into coke or speed you will be ratted on by a junkie. If you smoke weed you will be a burnout and it will be your life. Acid will put you into an institution. You cannot transcend this body except for death ( Whos song "the seeker" proveds this point)Also listen to pink floyds time on youtube.What is really important is what Jesus Christ taught and that is having love. You need someone to love you your whole life. We all need love, and we shouldn't waste outr lives being selfish. Voulunteer to help and always help those in need. You can say whatever about church goers or bible thumpers, but who holds charity for homeless and desperate young mothers, whos always doing these things to help people. Orphanages have almost always been christian. Helping others will give you a deep satisfaction in your soul that no drug can.Drugs eventually will suck the joy out of life and you will be addicted because you can't be happy otherwise.Beleive me when I say i was a stoner, I'm not proud of this. It was always "lets get a bag" or "wanna smoke a bowl"That was life. It's really stupid.Love is better than anything.Tell your mom you wnat to stop and than stop. Find new friends or just be the one in the group who doesn't get high, you will eventually see that they are really stupid when your not high. I advise to find a new group of friends because they are going down the wrong path.You need to find the right way as early s possible because you never know when it is going to be too late.Maybe watch trainspotting.





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