Should I stay in this relationship soley to avoid severe loneliness and isolatio!


Question: I relocated to a new city where I dont know any one, no family or friends, and so far I have only been able to develop a decent relationship with 1 person, which is my current boyfriend.
the relationship really only provides me with basic companionship, nothing more... this relationship is not fulfilling in any way, and is not normally what I would deal with, I am usually very picky and have higher standards- but when we are not together, I feel lonely, depressed, and isolated, from not having any one else to communicate with....
Should I just deal with it for the time being until I can do better,
on a good note: this relationship is helping me from having a nervous breakdown


Answers: I relocated to a new city where I dont know any one, no family or friends, and so far I have only been able to develop a decent relationship with 1 person, which is my current boyfriend.
the relationship really only provides me with basic companionship, nothing more... this relationship is not fulfilling in any way, and is not normally what I would deal with, I am usually very picky and have higher standards- but when we are not together, I feel lonely, depressed, and isolated, from not having any one else to communicate with....
Should I just deal with it for the time being until I can do better,
on a good note: this relationship is helping me from having a nervous breakdown

It doesn't sound much like a relationship. If it's keeping your sanity. . . stay in it, but join organizations, library, volunteer work, soup kitchen, etc., to meet other people. No one should be that unhappy and alone. Good Luck!

You need to check out some volunteer organizations or join some organization and get out more. Relying on another person for your own happiness never works as you are now finding out. This person is providing no positive improvement in your life so.......you need to decide if you want to continue down this path or pick a new one. If your life is busy (and you can make it that way by going to the gym, volunteering at the Y, volunteering for a reading program, tutuoring programs, food pantry, hospital volunteer in the evenings, etc), you will no have time to think about having a nervous breakdown. Every time someone relocates, it is difficult but it is up to you to find the exciting things available to you in a new city to make it your own. This, in turn, will allow you to meet more people your own age. The isolation right now is by your own choice, you can change this.

If it's not fulfilling in any way, then it's mostly pointless.
You're using that person and it's not kind to them.
Maybe keep him as a friend?
If he's good enough to have as a friend he'll understand.
I'm sure you'll make more friends.

I normally go out to eat. I sit at the bar, eat and socialise with other people sitting at the bar.
Invite people from work out for dinner or a drink or coffee. Get involved in some type of club or take dancing lessons or some type of activity. it will help you to make more friends.

NEVER stay with someone just until something better comes along, would u like it if someone did that to you? you probably would feel hurt, as Im sure he will if this is how u really feel.
you can't find happiness in a relationship, job or anything else, until you 1st find happiness with yourself.
find out who YOU are, be happy with yourself, have respect for yourself ................then once you have that accomplished, find happy additions to add to your life.........
learn to be happy with just YOU before trying to add people to the circle...
you might be missing out on meeting the right person by staying with someone who doesn't make you happy......
stay with someone because you want to be with them, not because it is your only option.......
maybe you need some friends for now, sounds like that is what this guy is to you, someone to help keep you together??
find an organization or club to join so you can meet new people in your area...get out there and live,....
fear is temporary, regret is forever!
good luck to you!

Nothing is worse than being in a bad relationship.
Dump him; Your happiness is priceless and you will develop friends and stuff once you get out there and try.
Go be Happy !!

You should really read this free E-book containing 97 steps to a happy relationship. highly recommended!





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