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Question: I have no idea what to do with my life, first i got little depressed, then my girlfriend of 3 years left me, then i got even more depressed, then i tried to get my ex gf back it turns out she found someone else with in 2 weeks, of course i slipped even more into depresstion, and now because ive been trying everything to get in contact with my ex gf her father has reported me to the police and i can no longer talk to her and i think i now have a criminal record of harrasment, now i think im in severe depression and also think i can no longer try to get into the police, i have no idea what to do with my life.
Answers: I have no idea what to do with my life, first i got little depressed, then my girlfriend of 3 years left me, then i got even more depressed, then i tried to get my ex gf back it turns out she found someone else with in 2 weeks, of course i slipped even more into depresstion, and now because ive been trying everything to get in contact with my ex gf her father has reported me to the police and i can no longer talk to her and i think i now have a criminal record of harrasment, now i think im in severe depression and also think i can no longer try to get into the police, i have no idea what to do with my life.
It seems that you have a fear of being alone and are looking outside of yourself for happiness. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Many others feel this. Try this. Set yourself a short term goal, achieve it, set another one. They don't need to be big ones. It will help you stay focused on yourself and give you a sense of accomplishment and direction. I do not know your work situation, education, or if you have creative interests. Select something from one of these groups that you can do toward enhancing your innate talents. For the first goals, ensure it won't take any longer than perhaps two weeks to a month from start to finish. Frame the certificate or course marks you earn or first paycheck or raise you get. Display your creations in a prominent place in your home. Every time you do something to increase your self worth and further your development as a human being, reward yourself with something tangible and a little indulgent. Keep track of them in a journal or buy a calendar with space to write on. By doing this you will begin to rely on yourself more and more to be the architect of your life. Not separate from others but unique and at peace with who you are.
cheer up if you love someone and let them go if they come back to you they will be yours just try to relax and let her go for now get out and have some fun this life is to short and the next one is to long my friend
go to bed and stay there.
If you were able to let her go then that would be a big relief for you. It's not going to be easy but if you keep it up it's like you touching a lit matchstick and it still hurts until you stop.
The sooner you move on with your life the sooner you will feel better. Start a new hobby or pick up and old one.
On Monday, Call your local mental health clinic ask for "Intake"
Then they will set an appointment to interview you. Then they will place to you to a counselor or psychologist or psychiatrist that best fits your needs.
If you can not afford those services, they do allow sliding scale fees. Just make sure you let them know you need assistance & can not afford full time fees.
See a therapist.
Well I'm sorry about your girlfriend. Try just moving on, forget about her. But it is a crime to try to contact somebody repeatedly after they tell you to stop. Have you tried talking to someone, attempting to get your life sorted out? Maybe a friend or counselor or something?
Lucky is right my friend. I think the only way to get over things is to always get them out of you! You need someone who can listen to you, friends, family... and also distracting yourself from the things that bother you works in your advance, take a camera go out and take pictures, write songs... don't let depression get to you, you're stronger than you think you are;)
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if you are suffering with depression im sure the docters will be able to get the harassment charge removed from your file. if not then investigate ways aound it. forget about that girl, she is obviously no good and to be honest its a little sad to go chasing after a girl who left you and got with another guy within 2 weeks. sort it out mate, pull yourself together!! forget the girl and go out and have a good time, with a few mates :)
dont let the situation get nay worse by allowing yourself to get into trouble with the police, especially if you want to get into the force!!
just get your head sorted and move on with your life!!
Go to God. Ask him what HE wants to do with your life.
For your depression: Draw near to God and he will draw near to you. (James 4:8) When God draws near to you everything is will work out in your life. God is a healer. He CAN and WILL heal your depression if you just ask Him.
God bless,
With Christian Love,
Christina Songlee
You will never get your girl back if you chase her! Girls hate desperate begging men. Girls love mean men, play it cool.