My life is turning to shiz HELP ME???!
Question: well there have been certain times in my life where i just want to lie in the middle of a road and pray to god that a car comes past and kills me..
and yes it is all because of my a**hole parents
they really get to me sometimes
you might not understand because
well my dad have strangled me before on more than one occasion i do get scared i am used to him hitting me and stuff i just need to get away sometimes..
but i have to love them they are my mum and dad but i really do dislike them...
please can someone give me advice on what to do besides killing myself?????
i am desperate for help...
Answers: well there have been certain times in my life where i just want to lie in the middle of a road and pray to god that a car comes past and kills me..
and yes it is all because of my a**hole parents
they really get to me sometimes
you might not understand because
well my dad have strangled me before on more than one occasion i do get scared i am used to him hitting me and stuff i just need to get away sometimes..
but i have to love them they are my mum and dad but i really do dislike them...
please can someone give me advice on what to do besides killing myself?????
i am desperate for help...
To everyone that replied thank you and yes SAM does have somewhere to go she can always come live with me her sister. She is always welcome and when she is here we will be looking into things (like hre living with us ect..) WE live in a different state so Dad is sending her here for her bday. I believe my parents love her but Sam can be very very lippy with them BUT that does not deserve to be strangled OUT of her. That is wrong and Dad knows that. Sam knows hoe to push buttons (dont u Sam remember the boys in ur room late at night mmmmmm) BUT with love and respect Sam shold be taught the right things not with abuse, So thank you to everyone and Sam we will talk about this in person soon, dont kill yourself then u wont get to see the end outcome of this.
look you shouldn't feel this way. You can try calling you local samaritan group and talk to them or you can call me on 07858943475. if you ever feel it is getting too much for you to handle
My suggestion is to just be nice to them and do as they ask without question. I am saying this from experience. My mom and dad were bad to me and my brothers to but I finally finished school and moved out. My Dad would hit us with anything he could find, and would slam us into walls ect....... and my mom didn't help us at all. She just told him every little thing we did/said so he would hurt us more. In being nice and forgiving them you are being the better person and I know it's hard but it is worth it in the end. If you want someone to talk to just e-mail me and I would be glad to help you.
This is called abuse. My advice would be to talk to a trusted person, maybe a counsellor or maybe even a friend, anyone who can get you immediate help. Contact your local abuse hotline. Its number should be located in your telephone directory. Do not worry - there is always help for noth the person being abused and the person doing the abusing. Perhaps your father has experienced a similar action while younger or has violent tendecies. Which ever way, calling the abuse hotline would be your best alternative at the moment if it has reached that stage of violence.
Baby, My life is the same and I know its hard, You just gotta bite your tounge and get through it. Thats all we can ask for in the end. That we get through it.
Just keep thinking, As soon as your 16 you can legally move out.
And if things get too hard you can contact me on sweet_stuff_2005@hotmail.com
or
0421973720
Dont worry. Soon you will be in control of your life.
Talk to your teacher or counselor at school. If the situation is as you describe it, it is child abuse and your school teacher or counselor can help you.
My dad thought I would look better with knife holes, so I know how you feel. My advice is a little direct. Time to call child protection agencies in your area and tell them that you are scared and what you a**hole dad is doing to you.
You deserve to be able to focus just on being you, on learning and growing and making mistakes and not having to be **** scared because of them. You absolutely should not be thinking about killing yourself or thinking that any of this is your fault. I dont care if you turn out to be the worst behaved kid on the block, you have a right to feel safe.
I gave up trying to love my parents. They didn't love me so why should I bother. They will always be your parents and there will always be a link between you, but love rebuffed by violence is love lost. Its up to them to acknowledge what they have done to you and try to earn your love.
You really need to get out of there before you loose faith in yourself. Use the net to find a local kids help line. I don't care if your 16 or whatever, you still qualify as a kid. They should be able to help you.
My trick was to run to the streets for escape, but they are not safe, you need a safe place to be you. Please call the help line asap. It may seem hard to have to leave home, but perhaps your parents will want to earn you and your love when they realize what they have done to you and you may be able to return home at some point. But not if its not safe.
Be safe, be sage
Edit: Hey Gangsta Princess, my advice holds for you too, you don't have to live this. Call for help. The police, teachers, help lines, doctor anyone.
please talk to your teacher or counseller
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If you could live with relatives, that would be so much better for you then ending your life. Maybe you have a aunt or uncle, grandparent or someone who you can turn to for help. I agree, that you need to get out of your living situation. Even if you love them, you do not deserve to be abused.
Call your local Child Protective Services in your town as soon as possible... Tell them what you wrote here...They will find someone to come talk to you...ALSO Call the police 911 if your dad EVER hurts, beats or chokes you again......
It seems your life is surrounded by low quality people; first you have friends who have sex and do drugs and now you have bad stories of your parents; listen to your heart and realize all teenagers go through difficulties because you are growing from a child into a young person; you are a girl ......right?
Okay... at 14 you are fully capable of taking responsibility for your own actions.
Most parents don't just "go off" for the sheer heck of it. I'm willing to bet that you have not been holding up your end of things, which will naturally lead to frustration and irritation, and of course to actions taken to discipline you.
Treat the whole thing as a business proposition. Your "job" is to go to school, get good grades, pick up after yourself and do whatever chores are assigned to you around the house. In return, your parents give you a place to live, food, clothes and the opportunity to educate yourself.
Sitting around and playing on the internet or playing video games does not figure into the equation. You play after you take care of your obligations.