Are any of you afraid to die alone?!
Question: I have always felt like I don't belong anywhere, or with anyone. I'm afraid that I'm never going to have anyone, not even a friend.
Answers: I have always felt like I don't belong anywhere, or with anyone. I'm afraid that I'm never going to have anyone, not even a friend.
Hi notsonormalgrl,
As I was reading your post, I was listening Nick Drake's "Place to Be". It is a very sad song about feeling that you don't belong anywhere. I listen to this music often because I feel the same way as you do, so I hope I understand a little bit about how you're feeling.
For many people, reaching out to others can be difficult - especially if you're a lot different from them. Looking at your username (not so normal girl), I'm wondering if you are perhaps a special/gifted/unique person. I know for 'alternate' people like you and I, having relationships can be a challenge. But they can be done!
If you have a strong heart and genuinely care for others, you are bound to meet others who appreciate that side of you. Everybody in this world wants to be listened to, respected, appreciated, and cared for. Do your best to offer what a true caring person would, and you will find many satisfying relationships.
Finding these relationships does take time, so the key is to not to rush them. Take things slow. You may be depressed right now, so it would be a good opportunity to work on yourself. Do you have any fears about people? Unresolved issues? The more you work on yourself, the more you can reach out to others.
I really hoped I helped you at least a little bit.
Best wishes,
Joseph
yes, but i'm also afraid to live alone
I think that your fears are very, very normal. Just the fact that your acknowledging them will help you get the mental toughness to get through this 'down' time. If your having trouble meeting people, friends etc. try joining a group where people share similar interests. If you want to have some help with mentally being strong you can check out http://www.positivecancer.com
yes i'm afraid to die alone but i also afraid to die, i feel like i need to know what happens after i die before ill ever die.i dont know what will happen after death and it bothers me that why i'm afraid to die alone or at all.
Yeah, wow. I thought I was the only one who thought that way, and like sodapop, I, too don't want to live alone.
I've trembled in that particular cold before.
Because of my situation early on-I've pretty much always felt like a bit of a loner. Like I don't really belong anywhere.
Funny that. Go figure. Reckon we all need somebody.
At some time in our lives, we each fear one thing or another.
I find that the support I get when I go to church helps me through all sorts of my worries. That's where I found my husband, and my friends.
No, I'm not afraid to die, never have been.
I don't think I would be afraid to die alone.I mean,I've felt alone all my life.Being the only kid in my grade who hasn't had a boyfriend has also made me feel this way (A girl was making fun of me because of it). So I don't think It will be much different.
no
i'm afraid i'll never have anyone. but i'm not so worried about dying along. i'm not afraid of the death part, just the being alone while alive. i want so much to have someone else to share my life with.