How can i help my seven year old control his explosive temper and his aggression!
Question: how can i help my seven year old son with his explosive behavior and his aggression torwards his brother he also has violant behavior.
Answers: how can i help my seven year old son with his explosive behavior and his aggression torwards his brother he also has violant behavior.
Yeha..hit it out. NOT. He's seven. He's at an age where you are capable of speaking but not great at explaining how you really feel. He's angry, Violence and aggression are just his way of showing this. Talk to him more. Ask him how he feels about certain things. tell him its ok to be angry. But not ok to be violent. Have him give you ideas on how he can fix his anger problem. Kids like to feel involved. Also anything dramatic happen recently? Divorce, a big move, etc. These can all be factors in a persons behavior.
" how people treat others is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves."
well if its not to the point that he needs like anger managment then put him in some kind of physical sport....boxing football anything that will tire him out and let him hit people legally. ....or just get him a set of weights and when hes pissed make him go lift always works for me
Mhmm...jealousy maybe? mhmm, try to get him involved in extracurricular activities...if such behavior continues, seek professional help
let them beat the crap out of each other. Seriously, this kids are either going to hate themselves or love each other and just pass through a face. But then again I'm Mexican, meaning that I come from a history of being up each others business even though we hate each other at times
Tell him to calm down and relax. Treat him nicely and comment on anything good that he does. Go buy candy or something and tell him that if he behaves and doesn't attack his brother, then he will get the candy:)
I thought this was a good link.
http://family.go.com/parenting/article-s...
take him to a psychiatrist
it can be a mental disorder related problem.
talk with his pediatrician if it's a huge problem.... and it sounds as if the child is having some issues.
sometimes kids need a little help along the way, and as parents, we don't always have the answers. if your family has suffered a loss, or has been through any sort of traumatic experience or loss in the recent past, this could affect your son, also.
take care and i hope you can find good help.