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Question: Okay, my question: How do you make up your mind about someone whom you hate and love at the same time?

I need to vent, i really feel sick to my stomach. Theres this person in my life and i love her alot but i hate her at the same time, because i care about her so much. It drives me crazy and at the same time gets me angry, the more i find out about her the more i realize that shes unclean and morally corrupt. I still feel like i need to protect her and love her. But i feel so betrayed by her past actions, i cant seem to forgive her. I feel angry because of her carelessness towards herself, doing drugs, having sex, and cutting herself. I want her to be happy and feel good, but at the same time i feel rejected and hurt. It feels like she betrayed me, and i still can't stop thinking about her, wishing i could be with her. I hate her for the pain she put herself through, i hate her for the pain i feel, i feel confused. How can i move on? i can't make up my mind and i think i love her.


Answers: Okay, my question: How do you make up your mind about someone whom you hate and love at the same time?

I need to vent, i really feel sick to my stomach. Theres this person in my life and i love her alot but i hate her at the same time, because i care about her so much. It drives me crazy and at the same time gets me angry, the more i find out about her the more i realize that shes unclean and morally corrupt. I still feel like i need to protect her and love her. But i feel so betrayed by her past actions, i cant seem to forgive her. I feel angry because of her carelessness towards herself, doing drugs, having sex, and cutting herself. I want her to be happy and feel good, but at the same time i feel rejected and hurt. It feels like she betrayed me, and i still can't stop thinking about her, wishing i could be with her. I hate her for the pain she put herself through, i hate her for the pain i feel, i feel confused. How can i move on? i can't make up my mind and i think i love her.

Sorry to say it but you sound like the classic lame dog nurturer. Some people are attracted to needy people with huge baggage, people who can and often do ultimately destroy them, this for many reasons.

On the other hand there are thousands of caring compassionate partners of people who are on some kind of self destruct path or just plain mentally ill and although they will all say what hard work and what



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