My friend has problems can u help?!
Question: My friend gets bullied, since 4th grade (he's now in 8th). He can't fight, his family doesn't feel like taking him(or they say the will but dont) to boxing or karate even thohg he wants to learn. His mom over- reacts when someone does something small to him, like kick him. She yells, screams and calls the princlple on the "attacker" which doesnt help.
He's scared to go outside and talks to low, fear of embasrasing himself. He sometime inattentive, hyperactive,lazy,talks to himself,depressed (since he has no specail talent). He thinks about stuff he doesnt want to think about and it doesnt go a way , sometimes put stuff in his order. He write sloppy and cant talk properly. He tries to tell his parents (and any one he tells), but the don't belive him.
He doesnt eat right, not since he was 3, he's 14 now. No vegtabales, some meat and fruit, but mostly junk food.His family have done trying to force him. Most of the time he doesnt eat for days.
To be continuied.........
Answers: My friend gets bullied, since 4th grade (he's now in 8th). He can't fight, his family doesn't feel like taking him(or they say the will but dont) to boxing or karate even thohg he wants to learn. His mom over- reacts when someone does something small to him, like kick him. She yells, screams and calls the princlple on the "attacker" which doesnt help.
He's scared to go outside and talks to low, fear of embasrasing himself. He sometime inattentive, hyperactive,lazy,talks to himself,depressed (since he has no specail talent). He thinks about stuff he doesnt want to think about and it doesnt go a way , sometimes put stuff in his order. He write sloppy and cant talk properly. He tries to tell his parents (and any one he tells), but the don't belive him.
He doesnt eat right, not since he was 3, he's 14 now. No vegtabales, some meat and fruit, but mostly junk food.His family have done trying to force him. Most of the time he doesnt eat for days.
To be continuied.........
Your friend needs you, so I am glad you haven't abandoned him and you are looking for solutions to his problems. Good for you!
He needs to talk to a counselor, and if the school isn't addressing his problems, then perhaps he can seek out a minister with whom he can share about his issues. This is a serious situation, since his mother apparently is abusive and he is also getting abused at school. Any minister would be glad to talk to him, I am sure, so find and call a church close to you and/or him, and ask for the youth minister. Most youth ministers are experts at helping troubled kids and also, maybe he can get into some activities with a church youth group that will help bolster his self esteem. He belongs to our world and we should cherish him, he needs to know that he is loved. I really hope you encourage him to talk to an adult about his diet, the physical and mental abuse, and his depression. I'm sure there is a caring adult in your or his life that will be able to point him in the right direction. Please do not give up on him! I wish you and him all the best and please know that God loves you both :)
call child services to help tell them he is thinking of killing himself and they will go see how to help.
First, there is no reason to call it your friend when you're talking about yourself. We are all fairly anonymous here! Don't be ashamed because there's many people just like yourself.
Do you realize how ignorant it is to NOT EAT FOR DAYS!! You are trying to kill yourself! Same with the junk food and NO vegetables. You're overflowing your body with sugar and processed foods. Your organs are functioning at a fraction of what they could be, they're essentially stunted. If you care about yourself at all..which you do... start eating a more balanced diet, three times a day.
If you're inattentive and hyperactive, how are you sleeping? I would get you a sleep study if I were your parent to rule out sleep apnea.
You should also see a counselor before going on any medication (this is THE last resort).
I think you need to talk to his parents and tell them whats going on at school, they need to know the truth no matter what...Good luck
Oh my god! Call the childrens aid & get this kid some help ASAP he's just a little guy & can't help himself. That IS child abuse & neglect You HAVE an obligation to help him get better
Sounds just like my friend
Hey well you can do this
comfort him make him feel that you are there
and hey you can protect him when people bully him, you don't necessarily have to fight just be verbally smart that helps!
and hey talk to some counselors they might have a impact program at your school that helps a lot.