Im a loner, nineteen years old in college, i do not know what to do?!
Question: I used to have friends but they turned out to be people that would screw you over in a heartbeat....im afraid people will not like me and i often feel very trapped inside my head, i feel depressed or at least inattentive to everything around me most of the time...if i make friends i will have to pretend m happy happy and that is just an uncomfortable act. Im paranoid about peoples faces and what they are really like...I feel confused everyday...im nineteen year old girl, pretty, smart but have everything wrong in my head, any advice? what should i do?
Answers: I used to have friends but they turned out to be people that would screw you over in a heartbeat....im afraid people will not like me and i often feel very trapped inside my head, i feel depressed or at least inattentive to everything around me most of the time...if i make friends i will have to pretend m happy happy and that is just an uncomfortable act. Im paranoid about peoples faces and what they are really like...I feel confused everyday...im nineteen year old girl, pretty, smart but have everything wrong in my head, any advice? what should i do?
You should contact your local college counseling center and see if you can talk to a counselor. It sounds as if you have a lot going for you but you have some feelings you'd like to get a better handle on, and maybe see if you have a depression problem.
Good luck,
Dana (M.S. Counseling)
Counselling sweetheart. You need to get these issues sorted out or they will drag you down for the rest of your life. Do it now before it gets worse. Your college should have a counsellor on site. Ask at reception.
That's the way life is now. You have to evolve into a consummate proffesional with all people. Emotions are weaknesses. The more you get involved the harder you fall.
Have you had a go of Acupuncture ?.
Acupuncture has an extraordinary ability to transform people