I have no idea what I am doing anymore? What's wrong with me?!?!
Question: Alot of the time, I have no will to do anything, like I just don't care. Ever since August, I have aching inside. But sometimes, I will be okay with life and my friends.. But then sometimes I really have this bitterness towards my friends, because they have been leaving me out of everything for awhile now, and they tell me they love me, but I feel hurt..and It makes me feel like I'm worthless. I don't want to feel worthless, but every little thing makes me feel even more worthless. I know alot of people talk about me, & NORMALLY I don't care what people say, but the past 8 months, I have been sooooo self conscious about everything I do. I act crazy around everyone to hide myselff..and I hide it well..but deep inside I hurt..and people don't understand. BUT SOME DAYS EVERYTHING will be fine..but then I go back to being sad. It's tearing my friendships apart & they don't even realize it!! I keep on distancing myself from everyone...and whenever someone tries to call me..I just don't
Answers: Alot of the time, I have no will to do anything, like I just don't care. Ever since August, I have aching inside. But sometimes, I will be okay with life and my friends.. But then sometimes I really have this bitterness towards my friends, because they have been leaving me out of everything for awhile now, and they tell me they love me, but I feel hurt..and It makes me feel like I'm worthless. I don't want to feel worthless, but every little thing makes me feel even more worthless. I know alot of people talk about me, & NORMALLY I don't care what people say, but the past 8 months, I have been sooooo self conscious about everything I do. I act crazy around everyone to hide myselff..and I hide it well..but deep inside I hurt..and people don't understand. BUT SOME DAYS EVERYTHING will be fine..but then I go back to being sad. It's tearing my friendships apart & they don't even realize it!! I keep on distancing myself from everyone...and whenever someone tries to call me..I just don't
First of all, everything is ok. Always remember that. Talk to a counselor. You are just depressed. You might think you stand out, but don't think of things that way!!! Go back to the person you used to be 8 months ago. Start all over. You have the strength to do anything you want to, you just have to convince yourself of that. Try writing in a journal, or join in a school play. Express yourself. Talk to youurslef in the mirror. This honeslty helps. Do things you never would of thought of doing to stand out. Stand out in a good way. Don't listen to what others think of you, because your opinion is the only one that matters.Try extra curricular classes. Think of yourself as the person you always wanted to be. Let your imagination run freely, but always have somewhat control of it. Believe in yourself. Try telling your friends. If they don't listen, they aren't really your friends. Tell your cousin or something. Be the person who everyone looks up to and asks for advice. Get involved with school activities.Be in control over yourself. Try writing a book, or playing the guitar. Don't let your mind convince you that your worthless or wanted, because you're exactly the opposite. Talk to someone and remember that you DO have the strength to stick up for yourself, and you DO have the strength to do things you havent done before, and you DO have the strength to achieve your dreams. All you have to do is believe in yourself. Don't give up. It will be ok.
I think you have depression for some reason or another. You might be stressed or there could be any reason to make you depressed. You might want to go to your doctor and see what he/she says about your mood and the way you've been feeling. Medication should make you feel better but you also might want to watch out for the side effects. I hope all is well and you find out whats wrong. Take Care.
Aww honey. I think you are depressed. Go see a good doctor or counselor. There is no shame in this whatsoever. There are several reasons it could be. SOmetimes it is a chemical imbalance in the brain. Sometimes it is bad diet and not enough sleep. Sometimes it is a reaction to hard times when you were younger. Sometimes teenage girls have it because their monthly cycle is still straightening out. Sometimes it has nothing to do with any of that. Whatever it is, please go talk to someone. They can help you. You hang in there. It will be ok, I promise!
u should tell yer friends the truth, and if theyre true friends, they will include you more( so hopfully that "hurting" stops).
you definitely have depression. some things that could potentially help you are...
getting help i.e talk to a counselor or go see a therapist.
sometimes medication is nessessary in order to balance out your brain. because thats what depression is, a imbalance of chemicals in your brain. but sometimes just releasing your feelings and talking to people helps a lot.
I think you might just need to look up some counseling. Enroll in some soul searching behavior probing therepy and with the help of that medical professional decide what the next positive move will be.
I could say this is depression but I'm not authorized to make that decision. Your best chance at feeling better is through therepy.
Do not feel ashamed to tell people when you feel ddown like this. I would try talking to my parents about it first. Then if you feel confident you should talk to your friends about it. If they act like you are crazy then they aren't good friends and you need to get new ones. I am sure they will be supportive though, most people are. Also if you go to church it might be helpful to talk to your youth minister or pastor about it, they are really helpful with those things. And try to look at the good things in life that always helps me when I'm down.
I promise you that medicine can help. I have been where you are and once I started my Cymbalta (well it took a few weeks to start working) the difference was remarkable. You may have to try a few to find the right one for you. Ask your family physician if you do not have a psychiatrist.
Take care of your mental side as you would any medical condition like diabetes.