How can I reduce my mom's stress level?!


Question: To be honest, I've been the main reason my mom had been stressed out! I really can't take it, believe me I don't like it. So do you have any tips on how to help my mom and reduce her stress level?


Answers: To be honest, I've been the main reason my mom had been stressed out! I really can't take it, believe me I don't like it. So do you have any tips on how to help my mom and reduce her stress level?

start listening to what shes telling you that bugs her,
or you stop being a jerk, or help out more,
or do her some helping favors to lighten her load..

these are just the normal things to try and observe,
and im not implying these are specifically what you
need help on or what is happening.

but sit down with ma and make some straight talk.
change is what you ask for now,
so do it together.
maybe half of it she needs help with
by not bringing it on herself.

make a new start. its a thing that actually
makes a nice uplifting, and something to look forward to.
your mom most likely loves you too, you know...
you care enough to ask for help. thats pretty cool.
you making the move will show to her you care too.
nothing to lose with each other here!

google it or mabey someone here knows. I do have the answer its just that i'm way too lazy to write that much!

- Do not nag or whine
- Do what your told without complaining
- Smile
- tell her you love her
- Randomly give her a hug
- Clean up without being told to
- Help around the house/babysit etc.
- Make her dinner or a surprise Breakfast.
- Make her a card explaining that you may be annoying
her lately but she means alot to you because....

quit doing what your doing to stress her out

OMG same i make her so stressed
she always gets mad at me 4 no reason:(
and yells and stufff
i dont know how to make her less :(
i wish i knew cause i would have tried it by nowwww

well i dunno what you are doing to cause it, but stop! haha! everybody chooses their battles so you aren't solely the reason for her stress......

quit doing what your doing,open up your ears and listen to her

do the dishes.work around the house without being asked.do this if you really care.

tell her to relax more and get at least 6 (if not 8) glasses of water daily and at least 8 hours of sleep. give her massages (i know it sounds silly but my mom likes when i do it lol) and rub her feet. take a little bit of the work load off her. hope this helps!

if she's stressed about you, then you need to back off! don't dump all your problems on her, and tell her about the speech you have to write. plan her a little get out, to a spa or something.

http://www.angertoolbox.com/stress/tips-...

Don't argue with her or talk back to her. If your living at her house treat her that way and she will feel bad about it and lighten up. Trust me if you say on deciding on whether to for instance buy a dog or not, say "mom its ultimately your choice because its your house. She will then say "This is your house too!" kinda suprised and feeling bad. Also Try to help her out with physical things if your a guy get the groceries out of her car or take the laundry downstairs for her when shes washing everyones clothes. She will then see you as a help rather then a obstacle.

well, Jack, if YOU are the problem, and she is stressed over YOUR behavior, the QUICKEST way to calm her fears would be for YOU to change whatever it is that stresses her out. At the VERY LEAST, make her understand that you aren't doing the things you do to UPSET HER, and it has nothing to do with trying to hurt her, you are just trying to travel your own path. Of course i have no idea what path that is, and maybe what you're doing is risky and could harm you. And mom's tend to worry when their kids are trying their darndest to destroy themselves.

well have u been doing anything to upset her lately? Maybe you should either sit her down and ask her whats wrong or write her an email if u cant talk to her face. I know when my mom is pissed at me the best way to fix it is to say ur sorry and what can u do to fix it and make her happy. Communication is the key.

You just said that you are the main reason for her stress, so that's your answer. Stop whatever it is you are doing to her to create this stress. Do nice things for your mum so she knows that you do care.

help her to do some house chores...
not complain what she does...
do what she told...

show her you are responsible & tell you that you love her & are going to make her proud & that eventually she will stop worrying about you. Do you best to plan your life. think about you education or skills & how you can get a good job so you can take care of yourself & her if she needs you to in the future but mothers are not stressed if they know their children are thinking straight doing the right things & not putting themselves in risking situations. Let her know it will keep getting better as you get older but you will now start to work very hard at making her happy.





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