What can I live for if I can't get what I want?!


Question: I have a decent job. I'm all right looking. I'm friendly and outgoing at times. But the thing that is bugging me is that I'm too short. I'm about 5'3." I want to have a beautiful girlfriend/ wife, but I'm subconscious about my height. It's very discouraging asking out women. Most women want the tall guy, right? I'm getting tired of women just calling me a "frined." Can someone tell me what I can look forward to now if I can't get what I want? Or is it just in my head? Suggestions will be appreciated. Or how can I change my outlook?


Answers: I have a decent job. I'm all right looking. I'm friendly and outgoing at times. But the thing that is bugging me is that I'm too short. I'm about 5'3." I want to have a beautiful girlfriend/ wife, but I'm subconscious about my height. It's very discouraging asking out women. Most women want the tall guy, right? I'm getting tired of women just calling me a "frined." Can someone tell me what I can look forward to now if I can't get what I want? Or is it just in my head? Suggestions will be appreciated. Or how can I change my outlook?

Take a look at some small men who have made it in the most difficult place to get on - where looks are paramount - Hollywood.

Dudley Moore, Michael J Fox, Tom Cruise and going back, Alan Ladd, James Cagney - their height did not stop women falling at their feet.
What about others like Woody Allen - I know lots of women who think he was sexy.

Don't think that women are only looking for tall, dark handsome men. If you ask most women what they look for in a man it is some-one who is caring and who has a great sense of humour.
Try and cultivate those qualities in yourself and I'm sure you will meet the girl you dream of.
Best of luck

People who get the most out of life are those that provide some service to others. When you get the wife/girlfriend, chances are, you still won't be happy. Shortness isn't about physical height, but being short-sighted.

Don't let you height keep you down. Keep talking to women and act confident it will be okay.

Maybe your problem is more that it is what you want and not what the other person wants. Remember it is not all about you. You have to get yourself out there and see who takes notice of goodness that they see in you. It is not about what you want. You would be a better person if you would look to others instead of yourself. You know what they say. " The one will come along once you are not looking." Take to heart what I have said and think about others instead of yourself. That is so selfish.

I like short guys! Don't let it get you down, you can only look at it differently, not change your actual height. Accept it. Look at the good things in your life. It's hypocritical for me to say so, but you've got to be positive.

That's good advice so far but they missed pone valued point that you have to change what you are doing to get different results.In was staying home a lot I went to my AA meetings in recovery and that's where I meet my best friend I know how you feel about being just a friend but think about this They value you enough to be your friend that counts for something When my best friend moved out I didn't hear from her but maybe a quick on line note on yahoo chat ff line note it sounds silly but I was crying I still do if I get emotional She heard that I was crying in the AA meetings and she came by yesterday and she said I mend to try and do some of those things so instead of staying home I am going to my Brain injury support group and I hope I find someone that I an call and make Friends with to start out but I will tell them That I want to date and see what they say I will start by calling them and see where it goes I need a close friend she said I need someone in my life My case manager thinks I only Need friends she is worried about me getting involved for some reason but My best friend Knows I have not been with anyone for 6 months and I have need she said you cant just pretend that you didnt care about your own needs She hugged me then she left. Hey I miss my buddy she was important in my life my mistake was that I didn't pay attending like she said to my own needs she told me she did take care of all my needs but physical meaning sexual we were companion to each other when she wasn't dating then I would wait until She had free time fore me., I am going Troy change my life where I get Franks need s met.
Frank Duffey





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