Do I have to change my phone number?!
Question: I have this person calling me that I no longer want to call me. I have an answering machine but she keeps leaving messages, I would like to just have her number blocked, she never gets out to use someone elses phone but there always is a chance, that she could do this and call me anyway. I just don't really want to have to go through the hassle of changing my number.She has very serious mental Health problems as well as addictions to numberous prescription drugs. The average person would be dead with what she takes. She has been close to death several times. I don't want to give up on her but she is so hateful to me over the phone that I can't take it anymore. She refuses help! So her many Dr.'s just give her anything she asks for including Morphine. I always end up in tears after we talk, she makes me feel guilty because most of her own family have given up on her. But I have to. I think the only thing I can do is change my number. Can anyone give me advice?
Answers: I have this person calling me that I no longer want to call me. I have an answering machine but she keeps leaving messages, I would like to just have her number blocked, she never gets out to use someone elses phone but there always is a chance, that she could do this and call me anyway. I just don't really want to have to go through the hassle of changing my number.She has very serious mental Health problems as well as addictions to numberous prescription drugs. The average person would be dead with what she takes. She has been close to death several times. I don't want to give up on her but she is so hateful to me over the phone that I can't take it anymore. She refuses help! So her many Dr.'s just give her anything she asks for including Morphine. I always end up in tears after we talk, she makes me feel guilty because most of her own family have given up on her. But I have to. I think the only thing I can do is change my number. Can anyone give me advice?
This isn't what you want to hear, but yes, I would change your number.
It sounds like this person has really upset you, and will continue to do so. The best thing you can do right now is to think of yourself, and protect yourself. Change your number, make sure it's unlisted. If you worry about her in the future, block your number and call her.
It sounds like you have been a great friend standing beside her this long with the constant barrage from her. If she is being hostile, and hurtful, sometimes it's best to let go, protect yourself, and try to move on clean.
just shut the ringer off at times you think she will be calling.dont answer the phone.i know what you are going through i am going through it to ,but with my mom.if you want to changer your # then do so but is it worth the extra 25 bucks it will take to get it changed then someone else gives her your # again.
Tell her politely that you can no longer resume the relationship and ask her to stop calling you. I knew somebody like this once too and I just ignored her calls, she got the hint in about 2 weeks and stopped calling.
I know you don't want to have to change your number but you just may have to and make sure it is not listed.. It's not worth what she is putting you through. Maybe she'll get help. But do this for yourself.