How can i help her?? plzz answer!?!
Question: so this girl and i have had a thing for a while but she opened to me the other day saying she doesnt do well in relationships because she feels like she's pressured by the physical part of relationships and because she doesnt want her heart broken because she isn't use to putting her trust into another person and she doesnt deal with vulnerability very well. she became really independent after her first relationship went horribly. how do i help her regain her trust. i really care about her and want to be happy even if it isn't with me. thanks for your thoughts!
Answers: so this girl and i have had a thing for a while but she opened to me the other day saying she doesnt do well in relationships because she feels like she's pressured by the physical part of relationships and because she doesnt want her heart broken because she isn't use to putting her trust into another person and she doesnt deal with vulnerability very well. she became really independent after her first relationship went horribly. how do i help her regain her trust. i really care about her and want to be happy even if it isn't with me. thanks for your thoughts!
well just guide her towards God...take her to church and just time will help mucho!
if you really care about her and if you do love her (if not cool) but you'll wait for her to put trust in you just give it time
show her what you really are and dont be fake
make a pact to always be friends and talk about every thing even if yall do break up...
and try being her best friend AND bf
well i do not think she is nervios i think she is preggy with u
Sometimes you just have to let time heal wounds. Pray about it, asking God to help her, and to help you know what to do. :)
If you are being honest in your concerns, that is good in itself that you care about her in such a genuine way. You can't force her to trust you, so I would just continue to be a nice person and show her through your words and actions that you are genuine. Good Luck!
your not responsible for anyone elses feelings