Did i do right right thing??!
Question: one of my teachers is very verbally abusive with his students and he talk about things that are so not right for a teacher to say, and he does things that are really wrong, so a few days ago i went and talked to my counselor and the the principal wanted to talk to me. and I'm afraid that i did the wrong thing although i know its right? and the teacher may get fired. i feel kind guilty, but he did the wrong thing. and now im scare that he might do something to me because i changed classes.
what should i do??
Answers: one of my teachers is very verbally abusive with his students and he talk about things that are so not right for a teacher to say, and he does things that are really wrong, so a few days ago i went and talked to my counselor and the the principal wanted to talk to me. and I'm afraid that i did the wrong thing although i know its right? and the teacher may get fired. i feel kind guilty, but he did the wrong thing. and now im scare that he might do something to me because i changed classes.
what should i do??
You Absolutely did the right thing hun! That jerk has NO-BUSINESS teaching with that kind of attitude! He should be a "Prison Guard" where that behavior is acceptable, Not in a school full of kids. And as far as him doing something to you, He'll Rot-In-Jail if he is Stupid Enough to try that! I would not be afraid at all, And be proud of what you did! You saved allot of kid's from allot of grief in my opinion. And who knows how long this jerk has been at it? Bravo to you hun! You did a very good thing! I know my kids would have done the exact same thing in that situation. Hats-Off to you. Take Care.
you did nothing wrong. Im sure the principal just wants to hear it from you. DONT BACK DOWN
oh i have the same situation. your doign the right things these teachers that feel super superior need to be pushed off there pedistule so good for you !!
You should MYOB, don't be a snitch. You know what happens to rats in jail?
The first thing you should do, is stop dwelling on it. The more you think about it, the more it's going to upset you. Being defensive is not a solution to anything. You didn't lie, you're not out to get him. I think it's possible someone else heard him talk like that, and it may have been on a separate occasion. You don't know how many other people have complained about his behavior in front of impressionable little children.
He may have a record of losing his cool and saying too much. If so, this could be sign of a repeat offender that needs to learn what to say and when to keep his big mouth shut. No teacher should be tolerated that doesn't have the capacity to control himself. If he's taking advantage of naive teenage children, taking trash and being full of himself, it's long past the time to get him away from them before something worse happens.
So you changed classes. That is not an admission of guilt. He may not know who said what. Do you know that they didn't ask someone else to corroborate your story? That's usually what they do. The school administration could get in legal trouble if they don't make sure and check their facts. No one should be fired over a child's gossip.
Try and relax and go about your business as normal. If he leaves, he won't have permission to enter the school grounds, and if it passes and he comes back he'll just have to learn to straighten up and fly right. That may not happen. You're taking this much too personally. You are not the only one involved. I'd worry more about the the person he offended, he could think that person could be holding a grudge and wants to get back at him.
This doesn't seem like an isolated incident to me. He probably does this a lot. If that's true, he has made enemies. Anyone number of people could be sick and tired of his big mouth. Your counselor is just as guilty as you are. If you ever feel you just can't let it go, go back and talk to your counselor again and let him/her know how you feel. I'm sure they would be glad to keep an eye out for you. It would be very bad for the school for this situation to become scandalous. That should never happen. Rest assured they have a lot riding on your health and peace of mind. No parent would send their child to that school if anything happened as a result of this.
just think he got what he deserved and even if u think u did something wrong and put one person down think, you helped alot of students who were physically and verbally hurt by him