Is most of the criticism you receive, positive or negative? How does that make y!


Question: well when your used to hearing something negative, such as oh i like this or that about a person, but you don't have it, and you never really hear that your worth is good or great, you often become confused because you've been so set in your ways of the negative people around you. i think most criticism isn't well for me, and for others, it makes them even more insecure. so is your criticism positive or negative, and how does that make you feel? especially coming from bosses, friends, family, spouses, etc.?


Answers: well when your used to hearing something negative, such as oh i like this or that about a person, but you don't have it, and you never really hear that your worth is good or great, you often become confused because you've been so set in your ways of the negative people around you. i think most criticism isn't well for me, and for others, it makes them even more insecure. so is your criticism positive or negative, and how does that make you feel? especially coming from bosses, friends, family, spouses, etc.?

We are all more perfectionist than perfect for sure and criticism is more identifying a symptom than it is remedy. Repetitive attempts at quality work helps the self approach producing quality work. Words are for the work of words, the quality for word usage, not everything else, unless they are action descriptive, like how-to communication. There is a middle ground for words and action. Usually I suggest a remedial action rather than simply point out imperfections.

i'm a really sesitive person, so when someone criticize me i initially feel hurt. however i don't hold a grudge. later that day i think about it and think if it is a fair judgement and if i can change whatever was wrong. after that i don't llike to dwell on things





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