How do you deal with having strong senses in reading a person's character?!
Question: well i think the eyes are the gateways to the soul. its an easy read for me to look in someone's eyes, and see what kind of person they are, or even body language, how they stand/act/dress. i'm usually right about the way i believe a person is. i can see insecurity/jealousy/all that stuff in their eyes. so...its difficult to be friends with or date people who i can read so well, and i can read most people so well, that i often judge them based on what i read. i'm reading all of this from how they act, and not words. so.how do you deal wth having strong senses in reading a person's character, especially in work/school settings?
Answers: well i think the eyes are the gateways to the soul. its an easy read for me to look in someone's eyes, and see what kind of person they are, or even body language, how they stand/act/dress. i'm usually right about the way i believe a person is. i can see insecurity/jealousy/all that stuff in their eyes. so...its difficult to be friends with or date people who i can read so well, and i can read most people so well, that i often judge them based on what i read. i'm reading all of this from how they act, and not words. so.how do you deal wth having strong senses in reading a person's character, especially in work/school settings?
i except them for what they are and i just know what i am going to say to them in that i know what they need to know nothing more then that just being true to myself is all i need be and what others do with there life is there issue not mine.
Have you ever thought that you might be a indigo or crystal child/adult? there is a number of e groups there for the indigo and crystal people
Best of luck
If you make a judgment about someone you are always going to be looking for reasons you are right. You should get to know people before you form an opinion.
Trust your instincts, and be grateful you won't have to suffer abuse like most women who don't believe in their ability to judge character. It's natural for all of us to do what you do...most women are just taught to repress it so that they don't look rude. Screw rude! You take care of YOU!
Well, it sounds like you might be diverting some of your own insecurities by putting up walls against other people.
Keep in mind that regardless of what you observe, first impressions (although lasting) don't define people. How will anyone ever surprise you if you don't give them the chance? Also, everyone has flaws... try not to shun people for them; have you ever considered that you're overlooking people's strengths and merits by focussing on their weaknesses and detriments?
Quick judgements and elitism will leave you alone in the end.
edit: Wow, it sounds like a lot of you are rationalizing close-mindedness. I hope no one ever keys into your weaknesses and faults and then refuses to give you the time of day because of them. Close your eyes, open your heart.
i basically have the same thing but for some reason i choose to ignore it and give everyone a chance only to find out later it was a waste of my time. be glad you have learned to listen to and trust this talent.
Its a gift
you seem to have very good understanding of the God,s great gift to mankind i.e MIND.You uses best outcomes of this device through the best tools, i.e eyes,tongues & hear.Collectively all these tools make/guide behaviour of anybody else.I think that you just have to look the other side of the picture i.e for a while keep yourself at the place of the person you are dealing(Although you have feeling that he might not be sincere etc.) But think if you have the same behaviour like him what option will left?
yay! m like that! and it's hard.. i dont intend to judge a person but it usually makes me like one.. like for example i always have a foot back with the ones that i feel is fake which is usually true.. what i do is just to talk with them still and give them a chance. telling myself that this person might teach me somethin' cause after all everyone is unique still. and while there is a rotten piece i see in them, they might be better than me in other ways like aww!! she might be a backbiter but when i saw her extending a genuine help then i know she is more generous than me and i shouldnt really be so close-minded about her. it happened to me and my officemate. there's always something that makes other people better than us..
Feeling and reasoning like a human might help and some courage to actually immediately and honestly communicate with people. You've got safety issues, so stay safe or do something.