What should i do? how should i deal with this death?!
Question: i feel so lost...i had a very close relative die and im still in shock they died like a 2wks ago. im involved in school and held at high postitons. im so tired from school i feel like i dont want to stay after school. im in a program where i have to complete certain jobs that i am given and latly my assitant as been doing them im thinking of quitting my assistant can take over i was once her assistant before she got fired. i dont know what to do or how to feel. i dont have my heart in this anymore. i havnt told her aka my assistant should i? and how do i help my dad who cant get over it either? and what are teh stages of accepting death?
Answers: i feel so lost...i had a very close relative die and im still in shock they died like a 2wks ago. im involved in school and held at high postitons. im so tired from school i feel like i dont want to stay after school. im in a program where i have to complete certain jobs that i am given and latly my assitant as been doing them im thinking of quitting my assistant can take over i was once her assistant before she got fired. i dont know what to do or how to feel. i dont have my heart in this anymore. i havnt told her aka my assistant should i? and how do i help my dad who cant get over it either? and what are teh stages of accepting death?
you have every right to feel as you do, and you have every right to grieve and feel sad and mourn, you in fact NEED to do this. Tell EVERYONE at school, there has been a death in your family and you need time to mourn. Anyone who has had a death in their family will understand and do what they can to help you thru this time. Let your assistant take over for now, there is nothing wrong with that. Just don't close the door on yourself, there will come a time when You are aready to come back to the responsibility.
Take the time that you need, encourage your dad to do so as well. Google Elizabeth Kubler Ross, she did ground breaking research on death and dying and has written some incredibly insightful and helpful books on the entire process, identifying the stages of grief, and pointing out things you can expect to experience, and how to know when the mourning process is over and you are ready to move on.
Best of luck to you.
SWEETIE JUST PRAY AND JUST THINK THEY ARE IN A BETTER PLACE NOW
THEY WOULDN'T WANT YOU TO BE CRYING AND FEELING SAD
THEY FEEL NO MORE PAIN OR NOTHING
my brother just passed away a few months ago. 3 this coming 17th. It is normal to feel this way. Take a couple days off of work or school if need be, tell your teachers friends boss they need to know.
my prayers go out to you and your family. you and your dad should hang out for a day like go to a park and just hang out. You guys will overcome.
the link is for the stages of accepting death.
Hi. I looked at your profile...and this is not a new problem. I am so sorry that it has knocked you off balance, but I do feel that you have more problems than this. Please, please, please...seek professional help and do the best you can to be completely honest. Hugs, Gina C.
Hey!..you're not expected to forget or get over a death in 2 weeks!
You should really have got time off school, because you have to be there to support your dad.
Don't think there are 'stages' of accepting death :s
But at first ur supposed to not believe what's happened if it was sudden...
you should try find someone to talk this through with =]
x
Death is something none of us wants to face but we will all face it. It sometimes takes months to get over a love one or a friend. There are steps in the greifing process. Shock, anger and sorrow. Try to remember the good times you had with this person. Time heals everything.
You have to accept that you cannot deal with the death and if it is affecting your position you should hand it over to someone else as you said your heart is not in it anymore and
that you need that time to adjust as your mentally exhausted still and bothered from the passing of your relative. You and your dad should talk and or read books. Your relative is in a better place and i know what your going through i was just at a funeral on friday and it still feels so new. You will pull through girl, i promise.