My mum just died and im really sad :(?!
Question: can someone pleasee help me :)
love you
Answers: can someone pleasee help me :)
love you
Aww baby..your mum wouldn't want you to stay sad. Think of all the wonderful things your mum did. How she would want the best for you. Allow yourself to grieve, to cry, to be angry. But, everyday gets better honey.
Find someone to talk to and support you.
i feel so sorry for u i dont know what the hell id do without a mum, go see a psychiatrist
Dear so sorry for that tell me how can I help you still my Mom is like yours
Aww, I'm so sorry to hear that.
You need time to grieve, but be sure to talk to someone about how you're feeling. Talk to your dad or other family members. Also, talk to your friends or a school counsellor.
Ya! sorry to haer but what we can do.It will take time to realize all that but try to make urself busy in some creative thing
Surround yourself with good friends and family. Don't let yourself be alone too long. Nothing more depressing like being alone with your thoughts. Go hang out with friends.
i'm so sorry for your loss. u didnt say how old you are?
if you're a minor (under 18) then your other family members (dad,aunt,etc) should see about getting you some grieving counseling. It will help a great deal. If you're over 18-then seek out someone to talk to.
being sad is a normal part of the grieving process when someone you love dies (especially a parent). it might take you years to get over it (some people never completely get over losing their parent but are able to go on with life).
if you don't feel comfortable talking to a counselor-seek out another close family member,friend,teacher,pastor or someone close to you that you can feel comfortable talking to.
communication is the best way to help you heal along with time.
and remember-it's ok to be sad,angry,hurt-these are all normal feelings!!
i'll be praying for you
think of all the fuzzy happy times you had with your mum,,,
and when you think of these, smile at the thought.
remember how good she was, and everything she did for everyone.
in the dark dark cupboard...
there was a rockstar...!
Every ones does.
I'm very sorry... I dunno how to help you...
This is really a tragic loss for you.May god help you get over this tragedy. One must accept that if we are born then someday we must die.This is the law of nature.May the almighty give you courage to bear this irreparable loss.
remember the happy times, it dosent matter if you cry when you remember them, its good to release your emotions. She wouldn't want you to be sad :) Greif is such a hard and horrible thing to deal with, its hard to do it alone. Your father, your relatives or a brother or sister may be going through the exact same thing- or a friend might help you get through this by just making you laugh.
Youll be in my prayers
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that she is with God in Heaven, she is feeling no pain and is not suffering.
Let your father or other relatives know how you are feeling. Remember the good times with your mother and keep her alive in your heart.
i m so sorry for u..
may God give u courage to come up with this big loss..
remember!this is da place where we r really helpless.v cant do any thing..
yiu can never 4get her but time will heal ur loss.God is so nice for us he will definitly give u courage..
My deepest condolences...
You know what? Your mom is there watching you and she would be very happy if you SMILED :) every day. Try every second. She'll be much happier :)
And ALWAYS remember the good times spent with your mom. Those are the ones that remain :)
I wish you love from everybody and a lot of strength.
I'm sorry to here that.
Search Grief on the internet and hopefully it will help.
The death of a loved one, in your case your mother is the cause of the most intense grief experience for nearly everyone.
Because grief is a complex emotional state, sadness may be mixed with a combination of guilt, anger, frustration and despair. Sometimes grief stricken people feel helpless and frightened.
The reactions to grief usually proceed through the following phases.
Shock and disbelief
Yearning to protest.
Despair and disorganisation: and Resolution.
It is important to note that these phase do not always occur in a clear cut pattern and people may pass backwards and forwards through these various emotional states.
Talking to someone usually helps. In addition to relatives and friends, a minister of religion, the family doctor, a social worker or a counsellor may be able to help you through this period.
My mother died 3 years ago. We still don't believe she has died, but in saying that we were glad because of the amount of pain she went through because of the cancer. ( I know that sounds really bad, but she was just so sick.)
I think of my mum as just going on a long holiday. I talk to her in my mind and remember all the good times and values she gave us.
I am so sorry to hear this, I hope you find some comfort from this.
My father died when I was 22. It was the most heart wrenching thing I think I have ever had to deal with. Especially since the last thing I remember saying to him was that he was never really a father to me, which was true. But now that I am older and I am getting married...I wish he could walk me down the aisle although I know it will never happen. To keep my father close to my heart I have few things. I have his ashes in a locket which I keep, I have another locket with his picture in it, I have so many picture around my house with him in them from when he was a teen up until when he died. I hold his memory so close to my heart and I know that he watches over me every day. Good Luck, I know it's hard. you can move on in your life but you will NEVER forget, and please don't!
That is terrible news. I am sorry to hear about your mum. I think that you should talk to someone who is close to you, like members of the family to tell them how you are feeling from this tragic event. Or you could tell a very close family friend about this too. Also you could tell a very close friend about this too. As it will take some time to overcome this tragic passing of your mum. I hope that this helps you and goodluck.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grief
http://www.caringinfo.org/GrievingALoss....
Sorry to hear about your loss, please dont go though it alone. Theres aways someone willing to help.
It is normal to feel that way for a certain period after a huge impact in your life. I know that you feel sad, but you must get it off your mind occasionally. Do certain activities that would help relief your sadness and do talk to others to pour out your feelings. I know that you will pull through and eventually move on with your life but still love your mum forever..
Google " 5 steps to coping with grief."
Let all of the answers flow around you.
Take your time, hold on to your big feelings until they must fly away.
Did you know that we are held by nature's laws not only when we are alive, but through death and into a sort of 'new' being.
So when people say 'she's gone to Heaven' they're sort of getting at the fact that we become to be in a different situation. She'll be okay, your Mum. And so will you. Go well.
i had the same issue, my mum died when i was 8 of lungf cancer. It is something that can really do damage.Best thing to do is get some form of counselling. I got some when my mum died. Really helped and put eveything inperspective for me. I do empathise with you. i have been there after all. Just see about some help. Otherwise you could hit a spiral that is difficult to climb back up from.
Hope this helped a little.
Matt
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