Iam still angry and sometimes unhappy because..?!
Question: mym mom has died over a year ago idk?/
Answers: mym mom has died over a year ago idk?/
Because a year is nothing in time, in terms of grief. This is something people don't get. When you lose someone close to you, the healing can take many years. People seem to think that you should be over it, like the flu or something, when the reality is that this loss has effected you tremendously, and it is understandable that you're angry and sad, and probably a bunch of other things too. There are 5 stages of grief, with anger being one, and acceptance being the last stage. If you are stuck, see about grief counseling, or find someone to talk to that you can relate to. Good luck and contact me if you need to.
You could be mad because Mom is not there for you now.
You could be mad at Mom ....for leaving you.
You could be unhappy because you miss your Mom.
You could be mad at yourself ...cause you are mad at Mom being gone.
That's normal. It takes time...
it is normal to be angry for a long time after a loved ones death, but where is your anger directed?
have you talked with your family about your feelings? sometimes we need our families more than we know, and their simple words and touch can help us more than the top psychiatrists in the world could ever hope to
my grandpa died when i was 8 and i know it can be a tough time. Try going to a psychiatrist nothing is wrong with that. You are not a weird person i went to a psychiatrist after my grandpa died and i am a totally normal person. No one thinks i have ever been to see a psychiatrist. Nothing is wrong with you but you are hurt that your mom is gone is what i think.
time will heal you and you will be back to ur normal life just try and be happy for now
Your mum didn't choose to leave you Hun but thats the way thing's happen. She will still be looking over you and still love you. Try and remember that..
Bless you! xx
You could still be angry about the fact that your mom died, but really no one on here is going to be able to answer that for you, we just don't have enough information about how well you've coped with your mom's death or what other issues are going on in your life right now. The thing to look at is, is this anger and unhappiness causing a significant impact on your life. Is it interfering with your job/school, relationships, personal healthcare? Are you finding that you are having trouble controling your anger? In other words, how much are you bothered by these problems? If you are bothered by them and they are interfering with your life/relationships then it's time to seek help and get to the root of the problem so that you can begin to heal.
GRIEF: Let me join with the others, here, in offering condolences for your loss. Go to http://www.mind.org.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar, and enter. Call: The Grief Recovery Institute (U.S.A.) 1-800-445-4808, or Hospice (phone book). Email jo@samaritans.org Chatrooms and forums: http://www.chatmag.com/topics/health/gri... and http://talkingminds.15.forumer.com/ and http://messageboards.ivillage.com/ Other websites: http://www.griefnet.org/ and http://www.helpguide.org/ and http://www.mental-health-abc.com/ and http://www.boblivingstone.com/?q=node30 Understand that there are often several stages of grief.
The stages are:
Denial: The initial stage: "It can't be happening."
*****Anger: "Why ME? It's not fair?!" (either referring to God, oneself, or anybody perceived, rightly or wrongly, as "responsible")
Bargaining: "Just let me live to see my son graduate."
Depression: "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"
Acceptance: "It's going to be OK."
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