Do you think I need help because I have so much hatred?!
Question: Really, I'm a harmless individual with a lot of hatred. I resent people, children, people who wants children (I don't want kids), people who gives me a hard time, people who gets in my way.
A lot of hate huh? Do you think I need professional help?
Answers: Really, I'm a harmless individual with a lot of hatred. I resent people, children, people who wants children (I don't want kids), people who gives me a hard time, people who gets in my way.
A lot of hate huh? Do you think I need professional help?
Work out if you do really HATE, or are just annoyed. Hate is such a strong response, someone that makes you feel so angry and brings out this vile intense feeling. If someone that doesn't affect your own life, is just living theirs and not hurting anyone bnut you still feel hate, then maybe you do need some counselling.
As long as you don't express the hatred inappropriately then its fine... yeah kids annoy me but I don't hate em lol
If nothing in your life is affected due to hatred then I wouldn't see it as a problem
If your feelings of hatred are affecting your life then yes I suggest you get some help. Do you have or are you surrounding yourself with a lot of negativity? If so it must get so tiring for you and you deserve to feel great. When you feel such intense feelings it can filter through your life in ways you don't at the time realise, maybe that's why you feel people are giving you a hard time. Good luck
ya, you should get help, you have major issues bothering you that sounds like they are coming from how you were raised or past experiences, in other words you need to be able to move forward and you don't seem to be getting there alone
Yah, I think counseling might be good, though it's certainly your right to not want kids. However resenting others who have them/want them is a bit weird.
If you really are comfortable not wanting them, then you should still be happy for those who do have them and not hate or resent them.
And in terms of the mothering thing...would probably be good to get some counseling and work through some of your feelings. We all have baggage from childhood, and that can often be transferred and brought into our relationships if not dealt with. Good luck!
ME TOO!
although no one would guess because Im always smiling and happy.
Alright, I hate kids and people who get in my way and people who look at me funny and people who joke around with me at te wrong time when im not in the mood but they dont know it yet I hate them for not knowing and for asking whats wrong irritates me.
I think it's pretty normal. If you start acting on your impulses them get professional help. You'll know when. It's when you start hating yourself for hating on other people for no reason. Once that thought crosses your mind Get help right away. too late for me though. Even though i now realize I need help I dont want to get it. So once you've reached that thought of hating yourself for feeling all that hate, get help or talk to someone about it. :P
Bets Of Luck fellow penguiN, WeEeE!
*CunTardEd MomeNt* *normal people around me stepping away slowly*
Pop a Xanax dude and chill the hell out.....
yeah, you need counseling. maybe some anger management to cope with all those resentments.
Why would you ask the help of strangers if you hate people?
Its all in your habits, I think. You've gotten so used to the feeling, without really looking into its origin, and accepting that something is wrong with you, deficient somehow, that you call it hate, because bad people hate-- but, you ask this question because you don't really believe that you have a reason to hate, a good logical one, and am not truly a hate-filled person. Though maybe you believe others would hate you (for the feelings you related) and want to get an answer to the matter: should you be liked?, through the answers presented here.
Is what you truly want friends who you can open up to? Who'll give you the time to communicate your soul? And who you know cares?
I think that's what a professional offers. They're hired to do it.
Do you want someone who'll pay attention to you voluntarily?
Well, I don't know. Sure, try out the professional help. They can offer advice you/I/they wouldn't have thought of. But they're people too.
thou shal not judge
no...but you are going to hate allloootttt of ppl,so be prepared for a hard/unhappy life....lighten up a little,from what i see from (all) your questions...you seem like a really ridged person.
i dont think you need professional help,but i do think you need to lighten up
Yes, even if you don't want kids you shouldn't have hatred toward them and people who want them.
Maybe therapy isn't such a bad idea. Carrying all that hate around every day is not good. You begin to feel ugly, act mean, behave evil toward people you meet. It is unhealthy too.
I was that way until I got help. I worked very hard at getting rid of all that hate and people began to notice that my face began to relax. I didn't look so mean all the time. They said that my voice relaxed so that I wasn't always snapping at people or insulting them. I used to tell people all the time, "I know I sound so nasty to you but I'm really not." I couldn't shake it until I got help from a therapist. Then afterward my face began to relax and I don't always look so mean and evil, people said that I was more approachable and that I don't look like such a prickly pear. I began to make more friends. I wasn't always so alone. Only you know what you need. And, it looks like somebody has already asked you why you are so full of hate or you wouldn't have asked us. You don't look like you are working out that hate here on Y!A. You look like you are spinning your wheels and are stuck because of all the times you keep wording and rewording your questions. You know what I mean, don't you? Don't just ask us this all the time, zs, do something constructive with our responses. People out there do care about you, you just have to allow it. It won't hurt to stop hating yourself.
You may need help but you are the only who knows for sure.
Now that said I don't hold a lot of stock in someone with their own problems trying to fix mine.
I have a lot of pent up resentment for people on a daily basis. I think it is because of our individuality and this is where we learn to compromise with others.
Unless you are starting to plot the demise of others then I would guess you are just normal. Well as normal as anyone else.