Imaginary Friend.?!


Question: My best friend and the love of my life died in a hit and run at a party that took to the streets last year. I'm only fifteen, but I really, really loved him. I know some people don't think thats possible at a young age, but wow. I still talk to him and I always see him everywhere, I imagine kissing him and joking with him and just being with him. Is this wrong? I don't want him to leave me. I don't want him to ever go away. Ive been suicidal, thinking I should be with him, because hes said he would die for me before.

I dont want him to leave me.


Answers: My best friend and the love of my life died in a hit and run at a party that took to the streets last year. I'm only fifteen, but I really, really loved him. I know some people don't think thats possible at a young age, but wow. I still talk to him and I always see him everywhere, I imagine kissing him and joking with him and just being with him. Is this wrong? I don't want him to leave me. I don't want him to ever go away. Ive been suicidal, thinking I should be with him, because hes said he would die for me before.

I dont want him to leave me.

ok well i can see u miss he alot, and that u really loved him, thats good, and hold onto the memorys u guys had, beacouse its allways nice to think back, and think to the future as if he was there, keep it up, there may be a guy who comes into your life who might remind u of him, and i dont think he would whant u to do anything silly and come see him, so stay here and keep living life and relax, and :) keep dreaming about him, life will get better soon, you had a love at 1st sight, give it a few months,years and u will find someone u love heaps and who means alot to u
and some guy who would do anything to see u smile and to try to do everything he can do to make u smile and be happy

Good luck and keep me posted

Peace
Corey B (17 , newcastle)

You are obviously experiencing bad trauma from this close death. I don't think this is silly, it shows that you really did love him.
Maybe you should talk to someone, professionally or just a friend. Talk about how you feel and they may be able to help you to overcome this desire to be with him.

Good Luck

You know how sad and empty you have felt as a result of the loss of this friend? You committing suicide will only instill these horrible feelings in the people that care about you. Please dont resort to that. The feelings youre having are perfectly normal and acceptable. Of course you loved your friend and you dont want to forget him. Indeed you should never forget him, nor let go of what the friendship meant to you. But you do have to try to find a way to move on, and no that doesnt mean forgetting or disrespecting his memory in anyway. He was your friend, he wouldnt have wanted you to carry on with your life all depressed and I assuredly can imagine he would not want you to end it. Just surround yourself with as much good as you can at this time...be it friends family, whatever you need to get you through this time. I wish you the best of luck

I can understand your feelings. Actually people your age can have very strong emotional feelings about others, even more so than many adults. When I was 13, my best friend was murdered. It was also very difficult for me to deal with it. I found that writing her letters helped me cope. Every night, write to your friend, just as if you were writing in your diary. Things will get easier with time. More than 10 years later, I still think of her, but life really does go on. Death will come to all of us, so it is best that we try to live our life as best as we possibly can.

Try your best to block out these suicidal feelings. Talk to someone at school, a counselor perhaps. Suicide will only hurt those around you and you don't know what lies ahead. I have at times felt like you, especially as a teenager. But now, I am married, with two wonderful kids whose smiles brighten up the saddest days. Take it one day at a time. For me, I asked God to help me and guide me, and he did.

I would advise you to see a counselor. Probably you are too attached to him and the accident has been a trauma to you and you are not ready to move on. I seriously think that you take my advise and act on it as soon as possible. Please do not make rash decision okey. All the best!

Visit a doctor,good that you were in love but you cannot hold this whole life otherwise this love will be like a punshiment to others

Just imagination,the real thing will be otherwise.

You are fine.. don't worry when I was young I used to talk to my imaginary friend all the time...

But you have got to get out of this! Talk to a trusted person or a consellor because you know and I know that your 'friend' do not exist..

Google "5 steps to coping with grief."





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