Obsessive Worry?!
Question: I have never dealt with stress very well and right now I am not on my medication (pregnant) and have been going off the deep end about everything. Bills, my house, my safety. It is getting to the point that my husband wants to move out for a little while because he cannot handle my irrational thought. The thing is... I cannot turn them off! I can't Some people pay a bill and move on. I obsess until the bill is paid then I move on to the next worry. It is always worry, worry, worry and I take it way too far. To the point that my friends and family are becoming very worried.
(I paid a debt off today and have been stressing over everything. Even the letter I sent with the payment stating this was it and outlining a conversation I had with a rep.I have stressed out about mailing it and getting the address correct and now my tracking info won't show up and well you see where this is going.)
I just feel like I am doomed and can't win for losing.
Answers: I have never dealt with stress very well and right now I am not on my medication (pregnant) and have been going off the deep end about everything. Bills, my house, my safety. It is getting to the point that my husband wants to move out for a little while because he cannot handle my irrational thought. The thing is... I cannot turn them off! I can't Some people pay a bill and move on. I obsess until the bill is paid then I move on to the next worry. It is always worry, worry, worry and I take it way too far. To the point that my friends and family are becoming very worried.
(I paid a debt off today and have been stressing over everything. Even the letter I sent with the payment stating this was it and outlining a conversation I had with a rep.I have stressed out about mailing it and getting the address correct and now my tracking info won't show up and well you see where this is going.)
I just feel like I am doomed and can't win for losing.
Sounds like an anxiety disorder. You should see a therapist. I'm sure they can find ways other than medication to help you deal with it. I'm also thinking that it is exacerbated by the hormones in your body.
Wow, I felt like you were describing me! I am the same way, have never taken medication although I am getting to that point. My bf is struggling with whether he can stay in our relationship because he is always frustrated with me. I cannot help the worrying either. i would love to see what other people say. I am scared sick that I will lose my relationship over this. I have worried since I was a child. Good luck