Should I talk to my school counselor about this....? (IMPORTANT)?!


Question: Okay. I'm seriously going mentally insane by the minute. I've just been so emotional and everything. I get pissed off and stressed out easily and feel like I just want to start crying. I call them mini mental breakdowns. And also, I've been thinking about suicide A LOT. It scares me to death, but I can't get it out of my head. I do write and it does help, but I think I need an actual person to talk to that will hopefully help me. Also, my mom's emotionally abusive sometimes, even if she doesn't mean to be and then I get all emotional because I overreact all the time and stuff. Every time I try to talk things out, we get in an argument. So I was thinking about seeing my counselor Monday on things that have been bothering me. Do you think this is a good idea or is it just wasting her time?

I can't move out or anything, I'm not even in high school yet. So I just wanted to know if I should or not...


Answers: Okay. I'm seriously going mentally insane by the minute. I've just been so emotional and everything. I get pissed off and stressed out easily and feel like I just want to start crying. I call them mini mental breakdowns. And also, I've been thinking about suicide A LOT. It scares me to death, but I can't get it out of my head. I do write and it does help, but I think I need an actual person to talk to that will hopefully help me. Also, my mom's emotionally abusive sometimes, even if she doesn't mean to be and then I get all emotional because I overreact all the time and stuff. Every time I try to talk things out, we get in an argument. So I was thinking about seeing my counselor Monday on things that have been bothering me. Do you think this is a good idea or is it just wasting her time?

I can't move out or anything, I'm not even in high school yet. So I just wanted to know if I should or not...

Yea, school counselor will definately help! :D

Im the exact same way. I get mad or sad easily now. I use to hid everything to not make anyone hate me or worried about me.
School counselors are their for students. I know how you feel. I can't talk to someone because I feel Im wasting their time on something stupid. It's not.
It's hard to believe sometimes but your going to have to at one point, talk, dont be shy, let it all out.

I feel stupid because Im not someone with alot of problems, just little things so i feel like I dont deserve help, just wasting there time but if you dont, it might be a regret of yours later.

why don't you go talk to your mom

Yes! go talk to your counselor

Yes, definitely make an appointment to talk to your school counselor. You will not be wasting her time. It is her job to help students when they have problems. She will help you.

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Seeing someone to talk to is a very good idea. A good place to start would be your school counselor I don't think it's a waste of time..

Yes you can talk to you counselor and I think that is a good idea especially if you are not comfortable talking to your mom.

wow yes deffienatly you do need to talk to someone before you cant handle it any more because if you dont talk to someone you might end up hurting yourself.

Do not wait until Monday talk to someone As Soon As Possible. These are serious feelings you are having and if they are upsetting you this bad you need an outside person to help you deal. I will keep you in my Prayers.

Talk to a trusted adult honey,
suicide is not gonna take u anywhere, exept hevan/or hell

If you do ur gonna regret it!
Again talk 2 a trusted adult

Just think if u weren't here anymore?
everything would b different...
imagine how everybody would b....

laterz!

If you feel comfortable talking to your counselor, go for it!
Just make sure you share these feelings with SOMEONE!
then they can get you help.

i do the same thing but when i think about it i'm always like i will never do it so whats the point of even thinking about it and i tell myspef of all the people who love me and care about me and what they would do if i wasn't with them anymore!

Try to find the strength within to get a grip on your emotions. You are letting them pull you like a runaway train. Stop and take a breath. Be rational and calm. As you get older these feelings will pass.

"Possess yourself, or someone else will." -The Fixx

Tell your mom about your thoughts and feelings or maybe go stay with a relative until you get your mental state together. And you should definitely talk with your counselor at school, she should have lots of ideas on how to deal with your problem, try to figure out why you are feeling this way what is causing it? and then you can work on it. hope that helps

One word: YES. I am sorry to hear that you're feeling so down. If you are around the time where you're going through puberty, that could contribute to the mood swings, however suicidal thoughts aren't part of the package... it's very dangerous and you shouldn't handle it alone. You need some help for these sorts of things. Don't worry, you'll get it all sorted out. Just see your counselor and tell her/him everything. They will help you figure it out. We all need some coaching sometimes, don't feel left out! With something this big you can't afford to! Just try to relax, ease off some stress. Try not to set your mom off. (Not that's it's your fault at all, but it'll help if you try to keep her calm for the time being.) See your counselor. It's going to be ok. Good luck! xxx turtle chicky

You are on the right track! I respect your good judgement.

You've already realized that your thoughts aren't normal and your school guidance counselor can help. Excellent!!!! With your own two very smart conclusions, you're a lot closer to getting better than you think.

You should also try to talk to your Mom. It's hard being a parent but it's really hard to be a kid too. Sometimes we all say or do things that cause enormous pain to the people that we love the most. Your mom probably doesn't even realize that she seems emotionally abusive to you. she's just trying to cope and maybe she takes things out on you in a verbal way. She's wrong and she deserves to be talked to in an honest heart-to-heart talk. She may have made some mistakes but we all need a second chance!!! Remember---It's remotely possible that you might have been an imperfect kid too. Parenting is NOT an exact science. She has not had much experience with kids your age BUT she's probably trying her best....exactly the same as you are.

I bet she would be shocked if you told her that it feels like verbal abuse to you. I think she loves you more than she loves her own life.

If you tell her how you feel, she will help you. Moms are very nice to have around!!!!! Talk to yours. Listen to your Mom. You guys are allies and not enemies!!!

Your counsler is there for you no matter what, I think it would be a great idea to do that before you do something that wouldn't be good it may not seem like it but many love you and don't want you to get hurt..So please go talk to her..your young and there be some stuff ging in your life that makes things hard for you..I was the same way in middle school, but i was that way because my grandfather died and I thought it was my fault but my counsler talked with me about it and helped me so much...So go talk to her and hopefully she can help or direct you in some area you need to go to!

Good Luck

You don't need to move out. You do need to talk to someone and the school counselor is a good place to start. You may need to talk to your doctor as well. Arguing with parents is common at your age and so are sudden mood swings. Hang in there ti really does get better.

i think it would be a good idea to talk to your school counselor

OKay, this is coming from a fellow depressed teen. If your mom is emotionally abusive, she's not the best person to be talking to right now. My dad is emotionally abusive too. and please for the love of (whatever diety you believe in) talk to your counselor, this is what her job is for, she can help you get a doctor and get over this. And this is the OPPOSITE of a waste of her time.

see your counselor immediately.

If you cannot talk to your mom without getting into an argument, then definitely talk to your counselor..that's why they are there, to help...take care...

Grow up!! you crazy bit#h!!!!!!!!!

That is what your counselor is there for if you are emotionally unattached to your mother and cant talk to her. Its always better for someone else to hear your thoughts and feelings rather than yourself.

Just to be honest here, I would maybe see if you can get someone to make you an appointment at a therapist office. I work for a therapist office and a lot of times when you tell a school counselor you are feeling suicidal all they will do is contact your parents and then you will be out of school. Although councilors are licensed therapists, they still want you to get outside help. Just thought I would let you know, but you DO need help, so if it is better to talk to a school counselor then I would do it !

you dont want to do anything that you will regret like suicide, its not a fun experience going through that
you should go to your school counselor but also maybe try to get your mom to get you a therapist
usually you can find a really nice person that will listen to you and know about things not one of those people that jsut ask "and how to do you feel about that"
therapists are really helpful when you feel down, trust me

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Definitely talk to your school counselor. If you are feeling suicidal you need to talk to someone sooner than later. I'm glad you came onto Yahoo!Answers instead of trying to kill yourself.

I know how rough the mom stuff can be. I had a really tough time of it with my mom when I still lived at home, and I never did talk to my school counselor, even though I thought about it. You would not be wasting her time at all to go and talk to her. That is what she is there for. And, you are worth it. You are worth getting the help you need. It's is better if you can get the help sooner than later, so please do talk to your school counselor. And don't give up. You will get through this, and there are people who care about you and what you are going through. Take courage, and take care of yourself.





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