Am i too insecure in my relationship...what is wrong with me?!


Question: i've always been very confident, outgoing and all but lately i find myself to be getting more and more insecure, especially in my relationship with my boyfriend. its not like he puts me down, he is always complimenting me and telling me how smart/beautiful he thinks i am, so it doesnt make sense!

im not insecure about my body or anything like that...its more stuff about our relationship. i worry too much!!!
i worry when he doesnt call as often as usual as i start to think that he might be losing interest, i worry about the future,
i worry about having fights cuz i dont like to show him when im upset ifor fear that it will make me less desirable. he doesnt like that i keep my feelings bottled up, he thinks we should talk about everything

i dont know why im having such a hard time communicating, i wonder if its maybe cuz i was (and still am) not able to communicate with my parents and thats why i have a hard time opening up about my feelings??

whats wrong with me? pls help!


Answers: i've always been very confident, outgoing and all but lately i find myself to be getting more and more insecure, especially in my relationship with my boyfriend. its not like he puts me down, he is always complimenting me and telling me how smart/beautiful he thinks i am, so it doesnt make sense!

im not insecure about my body or anything like that...its more stuff about our relationship. i worry too much!!!
i worry when he doesnt call as often as usual as i start to think that he might be losing interest, i worry about the future,
i worry about having fights cuz i dont like to show him when im upset ifor fear that it will make me less desirable. he doesnt like that i keep my feelings bottled up, he thinks we should talk about everything

i dont know why im having such a hard time communicating, i wonder if its maybe cuz i was (and still am) not able to communicate with my parents and thats why i have a hard time opening up about my feelings??

whats wrong with me? pls help!

I am also very confident but I have alot of worries about my relationship. I think that its just love and you dont want to lose him. Just open up and talk to him it will help the both of you. If you trust him let him in everything will be better.

i know how you feel
you cant compare yourself to others
and you should not feel insure
know who you are
and be happy with your accomplishments
some people though
can be intimadating and it can be hard
but you have to wake up to you tomorrow and thats it!!!
look at the positive things about yourself...
I had an experience and I had to put myself in check
because self love comes first!!!
CONFIDENCE IS VERY ATTRACTIVE TO MEN!!!!





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