Why can't I be who I want?!


Question: The entire day yesterday, I felt blah. I didn't want to do anything. Usually I'm working on something, my body, my manuscript, my mind, my hobbies. I'm always trying to improve myself a little everyday. Today, though, I got a delivery, put the damn thing together and it doesn't work. I just went crazy. For almost two hours I kept asking myself why do I even f**king try? Why try to be a writer? Why try to eat healthy? Why is it that people go through life not caring and get everything?

Sometimes I want to complain, but I know that people have it worse than me, so I don't. I'm so frustrated, too. I'm always frustrated because my ship never comes in. I haven't done anything spectacular yet even though I'm focused and ready. I'm 27 years old! What the hell, man?

I get this way sometimes, but I immediately jump out of it. I can't this time.

It's 5:00 a.m and I have yet to sleep.

Please don't give stupid responses. I'm so f**king angry.


Answers: The entire day yesterday, I felt blah. I didn't want to do anything. Usually I'm working on something, my body, my manuscript, my mind, my hobbies. I'm always trying to improve myself a little everyday. Today, though, I got a delivery, put the damn thing together and it doesn't work. I just went crazy. For almost two hours I kept asking myself why do I even f**king try? Why try to be a writer? Why try to eat healthy? Why is it that people go through life not caring and get everything?

Sometimes I want to complain, but I know that people have it worse than me, so I don't. I'm so frustrated, too. I'm always frustrated because my ship never comes in. I haven't done anything spectacular yet even though I'm focused and ready. I'm 27 years old! What the hell, man?

I get this way sometimes, but I immediately jump out of it. I can't this time.

It's 5:00 a.m and I have yet to sleep.

Please don't give stupid responses. I'm so f**king angry.

what kind of spectacular things were you hoping to accomplish? Very few people accomplish spectacular things, let alone in a short life. 27 is young.
But what is your definition of spectacular? are you basing it on others opinion of you and your work?
maybe you should try some volunteer work - maybe help tutor children in reading and writing
What could be more spectacular to a child that was used to getting poor grades than getting an A on a report card, or being able to open Harry Potter and understand it?
And sometimes it is okay to complain. Sometimes you need to vent your insecurities and know you are understood and supported.
Keep working to be a better person - if only everyone had such a spectacular outlook on life
good luck!

u all need to do this becoz u need to live

U need to do ths because, u r an pig. Ha ha ha :D

You are right...you are focused. The problem is that you are focused on the wrong things. Ok, here is the secret to understanding life...

We are all just killing time until we die...in other words it makes no difference WHAT you do. 100 years from now you and I are still going to be corpses rotting in the ground. Same thing for your kids. No matter what you do betweeen now and then is going to make any difference.

Hope that helped you feel better!

Man, you ARE a writer.
Good luck.
PS: People don't want to be writers because they are happy with their lives or themselves - that's why they write.

seek a spiritual way of thinking.

people have been molded to think that if your life is not in the newspaper that your life is not true.

this is entirely false. just love and live. great things will find you.

Frustration is an emotion like happiness, sadness etc... It is alright to feel low at times but don't let it get to your head.

Compare yourself with those athletes who are best in their own right, practice the same things day in and day out but still do not hold any guarantee to success. Despite knowing this, they still try . That is what you should be doing too.

Just keep going and don't be too hard on yourself. Give your self a break, try something different. You are just 27! and have a long way to go....

Maybe you're just in a bad mood....it happens to everyone. Try breathing deeply and have some good food or listen to some soothing music. This combination always works for me.

Alot of writers don't become successful until their 40s and 50s. Just keeping on doing what you need to do.





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