I have a hard time making up my mind!! 10 points?!
Question: In any situation, I'm always having a hard time making up my mind. I change my mind a lot. Example is, which course should I take in college. My parents have wasted a vast amount of money because i don't stay in just one course. There are also a lot of instances where I make a plan and I just change them if I feel like it. Why? What are the factors of this? How can I help myself?
Answers: In any situation, I'm always having a hard time making up my mind. I change my mind a lot. Example is, which course should I take in college. My parents have wasted a vast amount of money because i don't stay in just one course. There are also a lot of instances where I make a plan and I just change them if I feel like it. Why? What are the factors of this? How can I help myself?
this is a serious problem especially for your parents, but mostly for you, i think that maybe its because you just don't know who you are, and what you want to do, know i no your probably thinking OK that's obvious, well if it is obvious then why dint you take some time to get to know yourself, or you never know ma bey all this changing your mind is a way of getting to know yourself, personally i think you should just go with the flow because one day your going to wake up and relies exactly who you are and exactly who you want to be and want you want to do. so think of this "changing your mind phase" as a getting to know you game. and to answer the question HOW CAN I HELP MYSELF, i don't think you need to help yourself, i think you need to find yourself.
p.s. i probebly wouldnt make any chooses until then
This is what happened to me. I wanted to do a number of courses and managed to pick 1 by going on alot of work experiences on that particular course. If you want to do a course, then try it out like an expert. Ask 1 of your parents friends if they have a job that you would like to do, and ask them to teach you the basics and see the one you most like.
You are confuse and need to grow up and get your life togetherand sit down and think what you really want to do with your life.
its called procrastination and you are a big procrastinator - welcome to the club.
more than likely you do this because your not sure your making the right descision and you procrastinate or hesitate because you dont want to move ahaead with plans or a class unless you know for sure its the right thing to do
people that are big procrastinators have lots of trouble making a descision on there own because they are unsure if its realy what they want..
as far as helping yourself get over this - thats real hard, you just have to stop, and carefully think things through - start being an analyzer instead of a procrastinator
when you start out analyzing things, your carefully thinking things through and studying the options, this gives you the chance to evaluate and come to the right descision - and instead of procrastinating when it comes to a final descision which i know you will do at first, you just take that big step, and say ok, yes this is it, and go for it.