I've started lying; O_o why?!
Question: It's like I don't even think about what I'm saying; and like it's nothing really to lie about you know? Like to my best friend I had no need, didn't benefit me what-so-ever, I told her "Oh I just had a nap" I mean how STUPID is that!! I NEVER used to be like this! I've kind of been cut off from the world, but that's still no excuse! What is WRONG with me?? What is happening?
Sorry, I know I sound freaked out.. but I pride myself on being honest. And I'm starting to lie about stupid stupid things and the problem is, is that I don't even think before I blurt out a lie. It's not too often but... -_- still...
Answers: It's like I don't even think about what I'm saying; and like it's nothing really to lie about you know? Like to my best friend I had no need, didn't benefit me what-so-ever, I told her "Oh I just had a nap" I mean how STUPID is that!! I NEVER used to be like this! I've kind of been cut off from the world, but that's still no excuse! What is WRONG with me?? What is happening?
Sorry, I know I sound freaked out.. but I pride myself on being honest. And I'm starting to lie about stupid stupid things and the problem is, is that I don't even think before I blurt out a lie. It's not too often but... -_- still...
I know you sound freaked out and you are asking yourself all these questions. You have started on the right part by admitting that you lie about little stupid things, so you are on the way to recovery...importantly, ask yourself why you do it and then think things through before you say things. I know it is easy for me or anyone to ask you to think things through first since most people don't, but you got where you are by starting with a little lie...now you need to break the chain. When you blurt out a lie, stop yourself and tell whoever you told the lie to this: " I am sorry, I just told you a lie", and then correct yourself. Believe me, they will respect you a lot for saying that and trust you more. You watch the chain break and watch your self esteem improve....then you won't be so freaked out. I wish you nothing but the best in your quest and walk towards the truth.
you're only human hunny, don't be to paranoid about it, we all lie once in a while.. don't worry.. try to avoid lying tho.. hope all well turns out for u
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i guess think before you speak and when you lie reprimand yourself...or immediately correcting yourself.
First you must ask yourself what's going on in your life to make you a bit (it seems) depressed.
Your age, mental health, change in jobs or lifestyle?
How are you coping with stress, do you have an outlet?
Are you just lying to distance yourself or is it much more serious, like lying about everything- for attention, addiction of the thrill, pathalogical?
Think this through a bit...
So you must stop telling lies. Tell the truth, because we all belong to each other in the same body
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