Can anyone give me some advice please?!
Question: i feel so lost. everything in my life is going alright i'm making sales at my job. making great money and saving it for a place and a car. i still feel lost and incomplete. i have been thinking about what i can do but i can't think of any solutions. can anyone help me
Answers: i feel so lost. everything in my life is going alright i'm making sales at my job. making great money and saving it for a place and a car. i still feel lost and incomplete. i have been thinking about what i can do but i can't think of any solutions. can anyone help me
it sounds like you are a great guy...just hang in there and things will be better for you...good luck buddy...
are you seeing anybody? try dateing maybe you feel lonely and are looking to sharing your life and accomplishments with someone .. maybe that is all that is missing in your already complete life
i like lists. it may sound stupid, but start making a few lists. like things you want to accomplish in the next week, month, year, 5 year, 10 year, etc. write it down -- even if they seem stupid. start thinking of things you want to do to improve yourself. like join a book club if that interests you, learn a foreign language, learn to play guitar, grow a plant, paint your room. anything... you may find that these lists may help you find your way. just an idea for you.
You need a focus in your life and this has to be something that you enjoy. Excercise does it for me. Marathon running.road biking(the kind you pedal). Also having a someone in your life will help greatly..Pets do wonders for moods and they are great company. Always have something to look forward to..ie...Wedesday you will take yourself to dinner or a movie.Mark it on your calendar and look forward to it...
You don't mention your social life, what you like to do for fun...areas where you are caring for yourself. What you can do is create some balance where all your major life areas are being addressed--vocational, social, spiritual, financial, emotional/mental/physical health, etc. And don't forget family. I wish for you the best. Just the fact you're asking what you can do means you are searching for ways to find more satisfaction and pleasure in your life. And you are worth that.
Volunteer, as shown in sections 38, and 47, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris and consider volunteering, even from home, at first, as a means of changing your focus from yourself, and ceasing useless introspection. It will also provide a solid basis in reality for the daily affirmations: "I am a good person, who is valued by my community, because I ..(insert activity here). On volunteering outside the home, you will come into contact with supportive people, and receive positive feedback for your efforts, which will be obviously appreciated, and it will give added meaning, and purpose to your life, as well as helping others.
get a girl?