Is it possible that there could be something wrong in my head because i was mole!
Question: NO. first of all you shouldn't say wrong. But you did experience a trauma and you will be affected by it. Its important to see a therapist about what happend and how it affects your life now. You can learn to control the memories instead of them controlling you. But don't for minute feel guildty for going through a lot of feelings and mental issues that may seem odd to you. Its normal, and its a result of what you went through. Seek a support group or a school counsellor. You dont have to give the specifics until you see someone you trust to begin session with. You won't be scarred life hun. you just have to go out there and find the help you need to cope.
All the best!
Answers: NO. first of all you shouldn't say wrong. But you did experience a trauma and you will be affected by it. Its important to see a therapist about what happend and how it affects your life now. You can learn to control the memories instead of them controlling you. But don't for minute feel guildty for going through a lot of feelings and mental issues that may seem odd to you. Its normal, and its a result of what you went through. Seek a support group or a school counsellor. You dont have to give the specifics until you see someone you trust to begin session with. You won't be scarred life hun. you just have to go out there and find the help you need to cope.
All the best!
nothing is wrong with your head...
i promise.
you just need to go to therapy...talk with a professional
about this and they will definitely help you a lot...
good luck.
uuum, yes that is very traumatic!
yes that can cause severe mental problems. talk to a therapist.
yes
nothing wrong,get some help and stop blamng your chidhood, stop watching Dr. Phil and get over it!
if it was THAT traumatizing, yes. but, before jumping to conclusions, i would go see a doctor or psychiatrist about it. just to make sure of everything. also, if people on here tell you "yes! i know you do!" and stuff like that, dont listen cuz it could cause you to think that you do have problems, therefore causing things to happen and for you to think things like that, when actually it is just your mind playing tricks on you. before, i had severe anxiety. but it all started because i ate bad top ramen when i was w/ my bf and threw up all day, then everytime i saw him after that i had anxiety attacks and threw up because just for a split second i thought it was because i was nervous to see him. that one little thought stayed in the back of my mind w/out me noticing. i eventually had to go to a shrink one time and then i wore sea bands everytime i saw him... so be careful, ok? your mind can play tricks on you
They're could be. One of my older brothers was raped by his preschool teacher when he was 4, and again in his Christian youth group when he was about 19. He seemed perfectly fine until recently. He's in his late 30's, and to make a long story short, he's not doing so well now. But just because you were molested as a child does NOT guarantee you will have mental problems growing up. But what I do suggest you do is start seeing a councilor. They can help you if you feel like you need help.
there is nothing wrong with you. we all have our own pains in the past and most of the times they are not easy to forget. healing is a process... forgiving the past...
we are all scarred in some ways. felt abandoned. smothered. ruined.
we maybe scarred but we shoudn't be scared...because we are still sacred. a sacred human being.
you are an angel. even if you are molested before by this low-life mindless freak asshell beast...you are still as pure and as beautiful as the early morning sun.
every night before you sleep, pray to God never to leave you again...
I wouldn't say there is something wrong with your head.
However, as a few have mentioned - This may well have been a very traumatic experience that has left you with a variety of feelings & uncertainties.
Talk to your doctor, friends, family, & councillors (whomever you feel comfortable with. Remember it is not your fault! - Don't take any blame for anothers wrong-doings.
The future does not have to be like the past - You can make the future into something beautiful if you want to.
Be strong - Be happy - Don't put yourself down.
Trauma is crazy, and effects your life in so many ways without you knwing until you have processed the memories.
EMDR!
i think yes bcuz that could be very traumatizing i would suggest u go and talk 2 someone about that.