How to become sucessful in life?!
Question: Some have had bad childhoods. What can they do to break the cycle and do well as adults? How can you overcome abuse and poverty if its the only thing you know? I know it can be done. Because it has happened before. I want to be able to help people who have been through what I have or worse. I'm just getting more info and listening to others who have been through similar situations. Some may act "tough" and say: that doesn't bother me, or that happened a long time ago. But the truth is: Your childhood can have an affect on you! I don't care who you are! An abusive childhood is an extremely hard thing to overcome. I've been through it personally. I have also seen other children have bizzare behavior. What sad is: The behavior doesn't seem bizzare to them because it is behavior that they have learned from others. Once the mind is trained to think a certain way, it is very hard to get it to change. Change isn't easy. Change is hard. But I believe a person can change if they want it enough.
Answers: Some have had bad childhoods. What can they do to break the cycle and do well as adults? How can you overcome abuse and poverty if its the only thing you know? I know it can be done. Because it has happened before. I want to be able to help people who have been through what I have or worse. I'm just getting more info and listening to others who have been through similar situations. Some may act "tough" and say: that doesn't bother me, or that happened a long time ago. But the truth is: Your childhood can have an affect on you! I don't care who you are! An abusive childhood is an extremely hard thing to overcome. I've been through it personally. I have also seen other children have bizzare behavior. What sad is: The behavior doesn't seem bizzare to them because it is behavior that they have learned from others. Once the mind is trained to think a certain way, it is very hard to get it to change. Change isn't easy. Change is hard. But I believe a person can change if they want it enough.
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Well at first define what is a real success in your view..........
I think if you are living HAPPILY then you are seccessfull, and my dear its inside you to be HAPPY thats it.
There are two kinds of success, Financial and Mental. I would think that someone who wants financial sucess need simply find a career they have an aptitude for strive for it meanwhile staying out of major debt. Mental happiness is the happiness of satisfaction with many factors whether they are religious, moral, social, or familial. A rigourous self examination can help you understand which of these things will make you the most successful. If someone is following a pattern of learned behavior they must confront the behavior and the cause as well as the effects. What comes before defines that which comes after. Change is best effected when it is self motivated, because self talk is such an important part of the process.
I personally would just work really hard, prove yourself in an industry, you will move up as long as you show them you can succeed. Go back to school, it's actually a lot of fun, meet new people like yourself, making new friends, and getting a degree will help