Drinking... (alcohol)?!
Question: After drinking, is it right to feel suicidal.
I mean im only 17, and i feel really suicidal. I dont remember much, but my friends told me that i was going to do it :|
surely this isnt normal...
help
Answers: After drinking, is it right to feel suicidal.
I mean im only 17, and i feel really suicidal. I dont remember much, but my friends told me that i was going to do it :|
surely this isnt normal...
help
Drinking at you age is not a good idea as your brain has not fully developed but aside from that from the fact you arent remembering thats generally called a black out....so no this isnt normal..cut back on the drinking and perhaps seek medical attention there could be an underling problem..also alcohol is an depressant..be careful and get some medical advice
good luck
no..but, can bring on feelings...go to the doctors maybe your just depressed
Don't commit Suicide! and No its not normal to feel Suicidal after having alcohol.
Alcohol is a depressant!
You get so down you feel up!
The next morning can make you feel like topping yourself.
Don't do it and don't drink!
dont drink, youre only 17, thats a good solution...
Alcohol in small quantiy if taken over a long span of time is mood elevator. If it is taken in large quanity and in a hurry then the same alcohol becomes depressant. Depression after alcohol is not at all good.
You should try to avoid alcohol.
Alcohol is a depressant so it's not actually abnormal. If you're depressed already it can make it worse. I'm a recovering alcoholic and I didn't start getting that suicidal feeling after drinking until I was around 27. I quit drinking a year later. If you don't really remember then you may have been in a blackout which is NOT good. It sounds like you shouldn't be drinking...
The best help you can get is from people who don't need excesses of alcohol to enjoy life, I see youngsters on TV counting while someone drinks a glass of alcohol dry, what are they trying to prove? That it is a grown up thing to do? how grown up is it to drive in that state? some think it is, until they get caught. Then they can't accept that they have broken the law, the ones who caught them are a load of b+>+"+"s. I am no angel but I was older than 17 when I first drank beer, and have since known times when I have said "Never again", but have never felt suicidal,all I want to do is sleep, or sing my heart out, I don't consider that normal now, but at the time it was good, we were at war, and it let us forget our homesickness for a short while.
The way you feel you should only drink as much as you feel no ill effects from, otherwise you will be no good to yourself or anyone else in later life.
You are absoluely corect this is not the normal feeling a person usually has after drinking. You need to examine your feelings about your self when you are sober, it sounds like you may have so depression tendencies that should be looked into.
Alcohol usually makes you happy, calm, silly, dizzy and for SOME people, mean and ornery, but suicidal is not a feeling normally associated with drinking....
Even with the WORST hang over I have ever had, when my head was exploding and I was barfing, suicide was not a thought that crossed my mind....
No, it isn't right to feel suicidal after drinking. It seems to me you have a lot of bad things on your mind that you have little or no control over.
Although it's not normal for people to feel suicidal, it is normal for some people to. And usually they have good reason to.
Drinking is a way of coping, but when alcohol doesn't work, then the hurt must be very deep.
Suicide is when you Believe that you have no other choice to alleviate your pain. Your task is to constantly challenge that belief.
First of all, get better help. Your friends may not have the life experience to deal with suicidal people like yourself, which may lead to them not taking your problem seriously, or dealing with it inappropriately, or inadequately.
If you don't want help because it makes things worse, or you can't get help, you will have to help yourself.
Accept without judgment that you have suicidal tendencies and then quietly ask yourself how to stop having these tendencies. Expect solutions. If answers don't come easily that's okay. Don't force answers from your mind, they'll come to you. If your mind lead you into this mess, it can also lead you out.
Become an expert on suicide, find out how it works, how it takes hold, and how and Why it has taken hold of you.
Take all the time in the world to work it out.
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I knew someone in my highschool who took his life, and it was revealed that his parents were disappointed with his poor grades, and kept pressuring him to achieve. It wasn't the grades that were important, it was the conditional love of his foolish parents. That's a good reason to feel bad, which ultimately lead to suicide.
He could have also confronted his parents, acknowledged what they wanted, told them how he really felt about the situation and what he wanted them to do about it. If that failed, he could have left home. There were always options.
My point is that there were other things he could have done, and now it's your turn to find real alternatives in your life so you can be free from suicidal tendencies.
I hope this helps you.