Ok, everyone says that when you lose someone due to death, over time it gets eas!
Question: easier, then life goes on. Ok, what about when it doesn't get easier, and the pain gets more intense as time goes on? How do you cope with that?
Answers: easier, then life goes on. Ok, what about when it doesn't get easier, and the pain gets more intense as time goes on? How do you cope with that?
My husband died 4 years ago of cancer .I am a nurse and often think i could have done more for him. they say the pain gets easier i think it gets harder but i deal with it by reminding myself that it wasn't my fault, that everyones time is preordained .My son drowned at 13 i jus think that maybe there was something in his future that god spared him from. we dont know what the future would have held for them had they lived longer only god knows.
See a couselor
My Father died years ago but in my mind and heart he is still around
Everyone is different and people can become stuck in different stages of grief. Maybe you should seek a support group so you can talk to others dealing with the same thing. You may also be experiencing depression which makes it harder to deal with loss of a loved one. Don't be ashamed to seek help. We all have to deal with loss eventually.
It took me 5 years to get over one loved ones death because I blamed myself for his death. Something happened to let me know it was not my fault and eased my pain. It took me over a year to get over my mothers death because it was a shock. She died at the age of 58. So each person is different and so is the reason we grieve and how long we grieve. With my mother I would not let anyone touch her things for over a year because I knew she would be back and she would need them. I would not accept the fact that she was dead. It will get easier, I promise. Talk to someone .