How to be happy go lucky?!
Question: i feel like there is so much things going on the world,and it's
hard to be happy,i am not sure what live life to the fullest
mean,and school and life just seems repetitive,is there a way
to be truly happy? i feel like i am being pressure alot,and i try
really hard in school,and i feel like i gotta perfect everything in
school,i even felt bad when i had a b in math class, so is there
anything i can do to be really happy and not worry about
anything?
Answers: i feel like there is so much things going on the world,and it's
hard to be happy,i am not sure what live life to the fullest
mean,and school and life just seems repetitive,is there a way
to be truly happy? i feel like i am being pressure alot,and i try
really hard in school,and i feel like i gotta perfect everything in
school,i even felt bad when i had a b in math class, so is there
anything i can do to be really happy and not worry about
anything?
yeah, in the end, it's all in your head, becase nothing really matters in this life... lol.. I know it sounds mean, but it doesen't... therefore, give yourself a few goals.. like, I want to live everyday of my life to the fullest.... I want to help as many people as I can... Greet everyone with a smile.. etc.
I did that and used to be happy go lucky... the problem is that some people will then think there is something wrong with you.... They will shy away from you cause they will think you are not normal....
soooo, today, I try to be balanced... I don't smile at everyone, I try to make just a few close friends.. and I realize, that you can't make everyone happy... so I just let it go.
As far as school.... you are still young,,, i Konw, you hear that alot, but you will be older before you konw it... and I wish I was still in school, cause I have been busting my butt at work for over 10 years straight and counting!
Don't take everything so seriously. Before you get all upset about something ask yourself how much the outcome of anything will affect your life in the future. What seem like large problems now will seem insignificant in the future .Remember that most of what you worry about will never happen so just take life as it comes. Abraham Lincoln put it best when ne said,"I find most pleople are about as happy as they want to be." A " b " in math class, I should have been so lucky. I didnn't worry aboiut it then and it never made a difference in my life. I have found the most happiness in life comes from helping others. It gives a person a real sense of self worth.