Mental question (reasking want more answers room Q)?!
Question: Ok so My mom always gets mad at me for having a messy room but the thing is I cant bring myself to throw anything out im 13 and I cant throw out my barbie dolls or the teddy bears and tea time things i dont even look at.
Why is this that if i throw it away I feel great sadness and its not because im selfish i go to the hospital and play witht he kids and give them all teddy bears and everything and I think im a good kid all in all im not perfect but i try my best!
SO why is this... I cant throw away anything from my past!
Answers: Ok so My mom always gets mad at me for having a messy room but the thing is I cant bring myself to throw anything out im 13 and I cant throw out my barbie dolls or the teddy bears and tea time things i dont even look at.
Why is this that if i throw it away I feel great sadness and its not because im selfish i go to the hospital and play witht he kids and give them all teddy bears and everything and I think im a good kid all in all im not perfect but i try my best!
SO why is this... I cant throw away anything from my past!
Don't worry. This is normal. You are just not ready to be done with your childhood, and the toys/objects that represent it. I had a hard time doing this when I was younger too. I am now 31, and I wish I HADN'T thrown away some of my childhood toys. I am now spending money on eBay trying to recollect some of the things from when I was a kid that I wish I still had (my favorite My Little Pony figures, etc.) Maybe you can make a compromise with your mother. Ask her if you could keep these things in boxes in your attic or basement, etc. Then you don't have the clutter, and you don't have to throw them out. Good luck!
You're not ready to grow up. That's okay; I'm almost 30 and have a hard time throwing away things I don't even need. It's hard to let go of things you accomplished or things you enjoyed when you were younger.
Try boxing up all of your dolls and bears, and stack the boxes neatly in your closet. It will eliminate the mess that your mother is complaining about, and it means you don't have to actually throw anything away.