Help!! they call me horrible names?!
Question: Please help me, as a kid and even to my teenage years now i have had a unsually big forehead. I think its due to all the times i have injured my forehead; like in school they call me ugly so they throw stones at me and they call me a '40 year old man 'becuase I have such a big forehead. Also when i was young i hit my head quite a few times and even bleed. It is even worse becuase i am a girl and i dont want to do certain things which invloves all eyes on me e.g.going up in front of the class which lowers my confidence. Please help me i dont want to tell my parnets becuase they will tease me and i dont want to tell my freinds, even though they were there to see some of the incidents. So please can you tell me how to solve this problem permanlty instead of covering it up with bangs. :)
Thank you i really appreciate your help.
Answers: Please help me, as a kid and even to my teenage years now i have had a unsually big forehead. I think its due to all the times i have injured my forehead; like in school they call me ugly so they throw stones at me and they call me a '40 year old man 'becuase I have such a big forehead. Also when i was young i hit my head quite a few times and even bleed. It is even worse becuase i am a girl and i dont want to do certain things which invloves all eyes on me e.g.going up in front of the class which lowers my confidence. Please help me i dont want to tell my parnets becuase they will tease me and i dont want to tell my freinds, even though they were there to see some of the incidents. So please can you tell me how to solve this problem permanlty instead of covering it up with bangs. :)
Thank you i really appreciate your help.
Well, first of all, it sounds like you have a physical deformity of your head, and I hope you do not think I am being impolite by mentioning that. I do not know your appearance or situation, but people can be so cruel toward people who "look different" from them!
Second, the way people regard you will be often inspired by how you present yourself to them. If you shrink like a pansy from people, they will not regard you as one of them and will think of you as alien. If you have confidence and poise, they will, of course, make their little "social unsocial" challenges to you, but your "un-reaction" as a negative response will dispell any notion that you are not one of them. In other words, you know you are not "un-nice" and that you are a person just like them, so you will not allow yourself (give them permission) to be degraded because of their shallow judgement.
Popular people are people who make everyone feel good about being with them, and to me, that is your strategy, but that does not mean that you are going to pander to them or to appease them, far from it! Keep your dignity, don't get mad, the little people who never will amount to anything who chastise you are actually alienating themselves from their associates by being mean and critical of any good person like you!
I wrote this:
"Humans are really sub-human with the capability of being human if only they would try. Ronald Kinum 1996"
You are the way you are people make fun because they lack in confidence. plastic surgery would be the only way to permantly fix it but that is very expensive. I would not worry about how people judge you I know its hard but its gonna be your best bet I have a tattoo that says only god can judge me and i beleive in it every day.
plastic surgery might me your only option. don't let it bother you. it can't be that bad and bangs are fine. don't let those kids bug you. don't take it too seriously just laugh it off and make fun of yourself. that will help with the teasing.
put ur headphones on listen to music go for a wlak ignore them, their irrelevant :)
Why don't you just a get a fringe.
DONT LISTEN TO WHAT PEOPLE SAY! its just a bunch of Sh**. dont let people bring u down like that. dont hide who u are. u probably have a normal forehead!
I know how you feel be proud of your fore head alot of people have big foreheads unique is good you can get bangs or put a band on your head don't worry about it be proud of it.