HELP! help! HELP!?!
Question: I dont know what to do?! i am having very suicidal thoughts! and nothing seems to be going right for me. i dont get on with my brother, i hate my dad as for other complicated reasons but i still hate him! and my mum then gets mad when i try and talk about it. i dont have anyone else to talk too! school is also just getting to much and i have tried everything. a education welfare officer has also rang and left a message to speak to my mum because of poor attendace and i am amscared she will find out that i have scived but sometimes i just cant face school and i have even hid under the bed so that she doesnt find me! i dont know what to do but the only way i can think of! suicide it gets me out of thing i just cant go on like this! i also cannot sleep so i am depresed and tired with a noticable scar on my chest which makes me even more self-concious! please help me!
Answers: I dont know what to do?! i am having very suicidal thoughts! and nothing seems to be going right for me. i dont get on with my brother, i hate my dad as for other complicated reasons but i still hate him! and my mum then gets mad when i try and talk about it. i dont have anyone else to talk too! school is also just getting to much and i have tried everything. a education welfare officer has also rang and left a message to speak to my mum because of poor attendace and i am amscared she will find out that i have scived but sometimes i just cant face school and i have even hid under the bed so that she doesnt find me! i dont know what to do but the only way i can think of! suicide it gets me out of thing i just cant go on like this! i also cannot sleep so i am depresed and tired with a noticable scar on my chest which makes me even more self-concious! please help me!
Try calling 1-800-suicide or look for a local hotline in your area from the phone book.
Maybe you can try dropping a class and make it up later. You might just have to much on your plate right now. Take one day at a time.
Try ignoring your brother.
Remember you won't live with your parents forever so just play by the rules to make things smoother. Or try talking to them when you are all in a good mood and have your key points ready so they will see how adult and mature you are.
If you are having problems trying asking help from another family member.
Try to learn to relax. You will be fine.
suicide isnt the answer you've got a lot to live for! try talking to someone like a friend or your mum and it will make you feel better, or ring a help line if you cant do that
and as for feeling self conscious, you should listen to beautiful by christina aguilera, it makes me feel better every time! x
If you feel that you have no one to talk to, I highly recommend talking to a therapist. But one thing you should do is tell your mom that you are having suicidal thoughts, because in your description it seems like she gets mad when you try to talk about your dad. You need to explain to her what's going on. And if she won't listen then tell her "I am thinking of suicide and going to talk to a therapist since you won't listen or help me". Do not let a therapist prescribe you depression pills though....they will only make the situation worse. One you can successfully get all of your feelings off of your chest, they can then offer you advice to get you back on the right track. The best thing you can do is take each day as it comes and think positively (even though it may be hard). I assure you that you will get over this.
Please talk to an athority figure, anyone that you know you should feel comfortable with (teacher, friend, grandmother or grandfather, aunt, uncle, heck even a your local police department can point you in the right direction). Do you have other relatives you can turn to? The feelings you are having can be very dangerous. Please don't hurt yourself. Maybe a school counselor can help---explain to them exactly what you just wrote here. Please hang in there, I know what you are going through is hard, but things will get better when you find someone to vent to. Take care and good luck.
if your not enjoyin life take it out on every1 make youself known
take vengeance on any1, every1.DON'T kill your self !!RUN AWAY GET A BETTER LIFE or just go away for a couple of days get your family worried then they should click!!!
Ok listen, I know how you feel. I used to have thoughts like that all the time. But you know, even threatening to kill yourself is illegal. AND it is the ulitmate sin. The only sin that is not forgiven. If you think your life is Hell now, just wait till you get to the real place. That would be the stupidest thing you can do. I don't know what this scar is about, but you shouldn't feel bad about it. It's part of who you are. As for talking to your mom about your dad, don't talk about him talk about YOU!!. You DO have people to talk to, you just may not realize that right now. Yes maybe you should call that hotline that one of the others was talking about. Just don't be stupid please. You think things are bad now, but do you know that your family would be devistated if you did that? They would never forgive themselves. Killing yourself is selfish! Don't do that to your family. I am going to pray that you finaly understand what you have to do and what you shouldn't do. And that you get the help that you need.
Your life is too valuable to throw away...Suicide isn't the answer becuase you CAN and WILL get through this! I know a lot about depression and feeling hopeless, you just have to keep fighting.I don't know if you are a religious person or not, but a little reflection and prayer is what helps me get through my times like this and writing does too. YOu are NOT alone!!! "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD yourR God goes with you;he will never leave you nor forsake you"---Deuteronomy---Whether you are religious or not, I just wanted to show you that quote becuase it helps me feel not so alone, and like I always have some one backing me up, along with a reason to live.And you DO have a reason to live, so please don't throw it away.
Explain to your mom how overwhelmed you are feeling, & ask about seing a doctor & a counselor. Life is too short to spend it hoping to die, & counseling is a must, as is probably anti-depression meds..
STOP, STOP, STOP....................You are worth so much more than giving into suicide, Things might be tough but believe me if you try, and nobody is saying it wont be hard, you will whether the storm.
Is there anybody you can talk too, anybody? A friend, a teacher, an aunt, an uncle, anybody who you think would be willing to listen to you.
Although you have been skipping school, your teachers WILL still listen and be able to help you if you tell them what is going on for you right now.
Please dont suffer in silence.................x.