Why do i feel like this??????? PLZ HELP ANYONE?!
Question: i just feel like dying
my friends and family just make it worse
i dont know wat 2 do any more
i laugh alot and i can make everybody day good and they even say that.
but in the inside im always crying for some reason
im a 14 year old male
and im about to give
nothing is going rite in my life
i usually get A's at school but this year im failing
because i cant concentrate
no one loves me
plz help anyone who can relate
i need some advise i cant live like this anymore
plz anyone
Answers: i just feel like dying
my friends and family just make it worse
i dont know wat 2 do any more
i laugh alot and i can make everybody day good and they even say that.
but in the inside im always crying for some reason
im a 14 year old male
and im about to give
nothing is going rite in my life
i usually get A's at school but this year im failing
because i cant concentrate
no one loves me
plz help anyone who can relate
i need some advise i cant live like this anymore
plz anyone
blegh....i feel the same, cept not as extreme....im doing worse this year too xD i dont want to die though. *super internet hug* good luck amigo
Please look at this website: http://www.metanoia.org/suicide
If you still feel suicidal, find a hotline near you at http://www.befrienders.org or email The Samaritans at jo@samaritans.org
If you still feel suicidal, go to your nearest hospital.
Its good that you realize theres a problem, thats a healthy start. I think the next step you should take would be to talk to a counselor at school or outside of school. I know that you said your family makes it worse so I dont know if they'll get you one but dont worry, alot of school counselors deal with situations like this and they'd know what to do, and its a miracle because they really do help. Just a few months ago, I was no better off then you are now and I had a great counselor who convinced me that I was worth everything and that my life was worth living. It sounds like your depressed and need a friend, trust me, everything will be okay if you come out and talk to a counselor whos caring and understanding. They're out there, you just have to find them. Well.....good luck to you!!!!!!!
dont give up.
just cuz it gets tough you can make it through.
i've had things happen inn my life, people have died, my freinds have had horrible things happen to them, i've had times when i've just wanted to give up, but i never did.
but just focus on the positive things in your life.
and think of life as a test
to pass all you have to do is do your best and not quit.
and btw i'm failing this year too, straight d's and e's. but all you really need is some motivation.
also, seeing a thereapist is a good thing to do. try it.
I know exactly what you mean, I went through similar experiences. It may not seem like it now, but it will pass. You need to be patient with your friends/family. Whatever you do don't give up. It is not uncommon for teens to experience these kind of emotions. Talking to someone like a school counselor or someting helps. Keeping a journal is what got me through it. You can say (write) whatever you want without having to censor it and its really cathartic. Try finding something you're good at like a sport or school activity and get involved. Whatever you decide to do, do not give up, and if you ever feel like you are going to, talk to someone immediately. Trust me, it gets easier. Good luck, buddy!
You may be in need of therapy to help you thru puberty. It's no disgrace and can be a very private thing if you handle it that way. Talk to your M. D to get started and don't do anything rash. It's probably your hormones boiling over and stressing you out. For starters, try to segregate the bothersome things in your mind from the normal and pleasant and don't resort to unprescribed drugs because they spell really bad trouble.
do you find yourself thinking about the future and seeing nothing good for you there? if yes, stop thinking about the future. make another person's day good. if that keeps your mind off the thought of dying, then do it. do you find yourself taking stock of your life and realizing that you've done nothing remotely substantial so far in your life? if yes, stop thinking and start doing.
life is about taking things one step at a time. each step does not have to be monumental or life-changing, it just has to be a step forward. i've felt the way you did before and i could never really point out which specific part of my life was wrong. everything wasn't right, but they were just okay, nothing special. so, what i did is i immersed myself in productive things, like making friends, learning about school and life, keeping my family close, getting myself healthy. just keep on trudging. if you feel unsure, just keep on moving. a step forward is better than a step back or not moving at all.
you need to relax.....there is always atleast one person out there that loves you (most likely more :) )....... if you have honestly tried your hardest to have people love you and it still is not working, then just concentrate hard on your school work...getting good grades will without a doubt help you later in life...it will pay off
i think u should get some help and try not to feel as deprest but i know is hard
u might feel like no one likes u but its what u think and it might not be true l and i know family dosent make it better but just talk to someone u trust and let it all out it really helps they give u advice and thre honest
hope u solve ur problem
=)