Im so nervous... PLEASE HELP !!?!
Question: i have to sing sing a solo at my church this sunday...
when i practice in front of everyone i like break down and im so NERVOUS!
what can i do so im not so nervous .. i really need your help i dont know what im going to do.. i feel like i hate myself because im so nervous....
everyone came up to me and told me how good i did .. but i have a hard time believing them
PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANSWERS
Answers: i have to sing sing a solo at my church this sunday...
when i practice in front of everyone i like break down and im so NERVOUS!
what can i do so im not so nervous .. i really need your help i dont know what im going to do.. i feel like i hate myself because im so nervous....
everyone came up to me and told me how good i did .. but i have a hard time believing them
PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANSWERS
Remember...you're not singing for the audience...you're singing for God. And he will LOVE your performance...no matter what! So when you're facing all those people, close your eyes, relax, and ask God to calm your nerves and you will do phenomenal!!!
Have fun and break a leg!
:)
You are doing it to yourself. You are giving yourself sooooo much pressure to perform well that you are freaking yourself out.
You must tell yourself that all you can do is your best, and it doesn't really matter if you sing like an angel or croak like a frog - you are just doing the best you can.
You;ll sing fine once you remove your own pressure.
picture the audience naked....i haven't personally ever had to try that...but i've heard it works really good!! and pray...anything is possible w/ God
good question!!! what i do is wear sunglasses on with black lids on them and nobody knows. once i wear the glasses i see NOTHING!!!!!!!!
there is this singer at church I help. she was shy, not confident and scared of men judging her. I used to help her from a distance. one time she was singing wobbly and the MC made a comment. I was in the audience and looked away as if to say, saying that was not necessary. there r good singers but not everybody can get that automatic condfidence. when you sing look at friends in the audience(get them to smile at you).
You don't HAVE to do much in life, really. If this is ruining your life right now and you don't want to do it - DON'T! kjl
If it's causing you that much pain, don't do it. I'm sure the church leader or choir leader will understand that you need to wait until you feel up to it to do a solo.
Church should add comfort, not take it away.
in order for you to face your fear you shouuld practice in front of a group of people or you can ack like there is nobody watching you and that stage is yours.