In desperate need of help!?!?!?!?!
Question: I have so many problems and I just don't know what to do any more
I have an anger management problem
My school is pressuring me because im not organised enough
People in my class take the piss out of me for every little thing I do wrong
I'm worried about my weight but its impossible to put on weight because I do 9 hours of gymnastics a week
I keep having urges to cut myself
My friend is anorexic
I'm ill
All my "best friends" ***** about me behind my back and I've been hearing some of the stuff they've been saying and it's really getting to me
If I don't sort out my life quickly I'm going to end up in a rehab clinic having a mental breakdown.
PS.. IM ONLY 13
Answers: I have so many problems and I just don't know what to do any more
I have an anger management problem
My school is pressuring me because im not organised enough
People in my class take the piss out of me for every little thing I do wrong
I'm worried about my weight but its impossible to put on weight because I do 9 hours of gymnastics a week
I keep having urges to cut myself
My friend is anorexic
I'm ill
All my "best friends" ***** about me behind my back and I've been hearing some of the stuff they've been saying and it's really getting to me
If I don't sort out my life quickly I'm going to end up in a rehab clinic having a mental breakdown.
PS.. IM ONLY 13
Listen, the best thing for you to do, is calm down. Your problems can be handled, you just have to take the time to look at them.
For your anger, I would suggest clapping or doing something to take your mind off of what you get angry about. It helps you a lot.
Don't worry about your weight. You are who you are. Some people have trouble gaining weight, but they are still beautiful in their own way! Don't worry about your weigh.
Please, don't cut yourself! There are people that love and care for you. Your parents would simply break-down. They may yell at you sometimes, but they love you to death. Losing a child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent, or even finding our your child has cut themselves. You just have to relax, and focus more on yourself and not worry about your problems.
If kids in your class want to hassle you, let them. Don't worry about them. They are nothing to you. Don't care about what they say or think. They are nobodies. God see's us all the same way, they are not higher than you, so don't make them think they are.
Now as for your "Best Friends", simply stop talking to them. They're not your friends if they talk bad about you! I'm sure you have plenty of friends. Once again, don't let what they say get to you. You're your own person, and you don't need people to say stuff about you. Ignore it and move on, they aren't worth your time.
I suggest praying or talking to God more, he will give you the best answers anyone can give. It may take time, but he's there. Don't do anything you'll regret!
Keep Your Chin Up,
Joe.
if you feel this strongly, go see a counselor, whether it be the schools or in an office at a different location that you have to pay for. if you think you need help, go get some. obviously you arent the "push help away" type, so i think counseling could help. maybe, if you really need to get your life in check, take a day or two off from school and just relax, get organized, and dig really deep to figure out what is triggering these emotions. it seems cheesy, but it works for me.
yea ik what u mean u just got to stand tall and not let the world get to u i know its gonna b hard sometimes and i know ull fall and fail but you cant let the words of others get to u cause ur perfect just the way you are and if ur friends arent willing to accept that they arent really friends yeah and people arejust that way your gone c peoplel ike that were ever you go
Okay look dont worry.
your jsut at that age where everythig feels liek its crashing down.
dont cut. it makes things worse. trust me i used to.
Try to take out everythig you feel in a hobby, arts, writting, etc.