What is wrong with my mind?!


Question: Im 16 and dropped out of school for personal reasons of getting picked about my weight and ppl teasing me. I developed social anxiety I think. I dont go nowhere, I havent been out of my house in like a month. Last time I went out to eat with my family, and I freaked out! I couldnt go get food at the buffet because there was so many people! My parents bought me a treadmill a week ago and ive been using that. Ive lost 7 pounds combined from previous walking.

I worry about having money to buy things I want such as clothes. I have nice clothes but my parents bought me them. I want to be able to buy my own clothes whenever I want to instead of waiting once a month. My parenets are on a fixed income. In the summer I mow my grandmas lawn and make about 600 bucks a season doing it. But I spend it.

I worry about everything. Right now I ****** up. I should have stayed in school this year. I dont want to be 17 in 9th grade next year! Im worried about getting a job too.


Answers: Im 16 and dropped out of school for personal reasons of getting picked about my weight and ppl teasing me. I developed social anxiety I think. I dont go nowhere, I havent been out of my house in like a month. Last time I went out to eat with my family, and I freaked out! I couldnt go get food at the buffet because there was so many people! My parents bought me a treadmill a week ago and ive been using that. Ive lost 7 pounds combined from previous walking.

I worry about having money to buy things I want such as clothes. I have nice clothes but my parents bought me them. I want to be able to buy my own clothes whenever I want to instead of waiting once a month. My parenets are on a fixed income. In the summer I mow my grandmas lawn and make about 600 bucks a season doing it. But I spend it.

I worry about everything. Right now I ****** up. I should have stayed in school this year. I dont want to be 17 in 9th grade next year! Im worried about getting a job too.

youre using material possessions to make you feel better about yourself, which is something you dont want to be doing. it isnt healthy. dont worry about those material possessions to help make you feel good. just exercise and work hard in school. nothiing feels better than knowing that you did something you once thought you were incapable of doing.

its hard, belive me when i say that i feel what your going through, my best friend is 16 im 19 and apart from that when i was your age i was really chubby too, ok i was fat... look up the master cleanse. i lost all my weight through it,. no diet ever worked for me,,, and its super cheap and do it yourself-ish.

as for your social problems, just open up.. theres people out there like me, who love you... and i haven't even met you.. but its ok, as long as you love me too.

Talk

DAm you do think too much...hell you worry about everything..look let me telly you something..you have to first love yourself.. in order for the world to love you...I mean you have to find confidence in yourself if you always think bad about yourself...thaths the way its gonna be if you think that you can do it..then thaths the way that is gonna be also..its all in your mind!!!

Have you looked into seeing a therapist or counselor? It sounds like you have developed some fairly serious social anxiety. Therapy may help you overcome some of these issues. Depending how deep it goes a qualified therapist could also refer you to a psychiatrist for an evaluation. In some cases prescription drugs might be helpful. I have some of the same issues but after several failed attempts I am not on medications that seem to be helping. With these drugs I am able to function more normally and not get as stressed at social gatherings and when meeting new people.





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