Why Do Guys Do This??? (Long...But Please Read)?!
Question: im 16. there is this guy who i had one class with last year and have another class with this year. over a year ago i noticed it seemed like he was looking at me quite often.
2 months ago, i was turned around talking to this girl in my class and he was sitting 2 seats behind her. he moved his body all the way over so he could see my face when i was talking to her he did that for a few seconds but it was noticeable because i saw him.
there have been lots of occurances like that one. also this happened a few times over the past year i would be standing with 1-2 of my friends during lunch at school, and he would be standing with his circle of about 6-7 friends. i would be like 30 feet away but his eyes would be directly on ME.
TODAY i was walking up a flight of outdoor stairs. there is a bench on the lower level that you can see when walking up the stairs. i looked down at the bench and there he was. he was like biting his nails or something and looking directly at me.
Answers: im 16. there is this guy who i had one class with last year and have another class with this year. over a year ago i noticed it seemed like he was looking at me quite often.
2 months ago, i was turned around talking to this girl in my class and he was sitting 2 seats behind her. he moved his body all the way over so he could see my face when i was talking to her he did that for a few seconds but it was noticeable because i saw him.
there have been lots of occurances like that one. also this happened a few times over the past year i would be standing with 1-2 of my friends during lunch at school, and he would be standing with his circle of about 6-7 friends. i would be like 30 feet away but his eyes would be directly on ME.
TODAY i was walking up a flight of outdoor stairs. there is a bench on the lower level that you can see when walking up the stairs. i looked down at the bench and there he was. he was like biting his nails or something and looking directly at me.
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He likes you (:
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He sounds shy.
Just talk to him.
See what happens.
I think she should go talk to him because that sounds a little scary. If he has been following you and stuff he is obviously into you.
It seems like he might like you. Why don't you find out by starting some small talk with him? Keep it simple and don't give yourself away.
maybe he likes you too! once when you catch him staring, approach him (you must look good this day) and ask why is he staring at you all the time.
just talk to him somehow! i'm a guy in high school and i would love for a girl who is interested in me to come up and talk to me. if you catch him looking at you he probably thinks your attractive
he might fancy you, just chat to him
He thinks you are HOT!!! Believe it or not but most High School Guys have very little experience approaching women and asking them out for a date. More than likely he never has.
If the guys is too shy/afraid to come up and talk to you that's OK. I mean it's 2008 now. If you have a class with him ask him to "join" your study group. That way you have something to talk about beside how much you like each other... lol...
I wouldn't make such a big deal out of him looking at you. You may remind him of his cousin in Arizona. If he is popular, he is probably bold enough to talk to you if he wanted to.
WOW HE IS SOSOSOSOSO INTO U LOL TALK TO HIM! LOL JUSS RADOMLY SAY SO DO U HAVE A MYSPACE? LOL U CAN DO IT! LOL I HAVE FAITH IN U! BUT ASK WHEN HE IS STARING AT U! LOL IT WILL THROW HIM OFF GAURD CUZ U DIDNT TALK TO HIM! LOL U SHOULD LIKE HIM UNLESS HE IS FOLLOWING U INTO THE BATHROOM LOL!
he sounds soo adorable to me lol
but thats prolly cuz he reminds me of some one i used to like. i had been in my new school for less than a month and ppl kept coming up and talkin to me bout their friend that was feelin me. he was pretty popular and i was in his lunch so i saw him being crazy and loud with his friends and other girls.
so that made me think he was really into me when he finally came up to me and we started talking cuz he was always so soft spoken. but he seemed TOO out of character when i was around. idk if he was playin games or liked me that much, but i dropped him kinda fast lol.
so i say approach him yourself or have a friend find out what the deal is. maybe your the girl who makes him act different (aka shy) and that would be great!!
ooor maybe your just always in the way of his lazy eye
LMAO jk
Haha, I used to stare like that at this one girl. I thought she was really beautiful. I just wanted to keep starring at her all day long for the rest of my life. Her eyes were like a deep blue ocean that I could just drown in, and that would've been a good thing. And in the middle of the ocean were two black, round pupils, which were so cute.. So much cuteness was contained in so little space, so I'm not even gonna talk about the rest of her body. Anyway, those kind of thoughts were going through my head all the time. After a while though, I realized that it must be really annoying to her so I stopped starring. But I still liked her. She knew I liked her. I would hold the door open for her when she was walking behind me, and she would say thanks, and I would be happy. Haha, that sounded lame.. We rarely ever talked, and when we did she was always the one who started the conversation and she was the one who did most of the talking. And none of our conversations lasted more than a minute. I was really shy, not only with her, but in general.. If I were popular and outgoing like your guy I don't see what could've kept me from talking to her and asking her out. In fact in my case, SHE was the popular and outgoing one, and she was always surrounded by like, twenty friends. That's another reason it was hard for me to talk to her, even if I weren't that shy, it would've been hard. Now we don't even go to the same school anymore.
Well, good luck with your guy, though.