I am only 13, and considering suicide, Help?!
Question: I am 13, and I am greatly considering suicide. There are things that I like about my life, but there are things that make me miserable. I really hate my life at times, and sometimes I want to go get a butcher knife and stab myself until I die. I cut myself alot :\ I don't know what to do, I am in such a state of confusion I don't know what to do.
Answers: I am 13, and I am greatly considering suicide. There are things that I like about my life, but there are things that make me miserable. I really hate my life at times, and sometimes I want to go get a butcher knife and stab myself until I die. I cut myself alot :\ I don't know what to do, I am in such a state of confusion I don't know what to do.
Life can suck sometimes, but it won't suck all the time. I know how tuff life can be but hang in there, I promise that their are times when you will feel like you are on top of the world. Every problem we have is only temporary.
Do u have anyone u can talk to? This can help alot. Even a priest or a minister. If you go to Catholic Confession, what you say is very confidential. I have talked to some very cool priests in the confessional.
I will say a prayer for u 2nite. I really hope all goes well for you my friend.
why are u upset??? go to counsler think positive thats all i know
Your life is probably really influenced about what other people think of you.
Stop that...Focus on yourself, have a goal of someone you want to be, and work hard to become that person.
Other people usually are just as focused on their own problems as you are. You are honestly not alone in this world. And think of kids in Africa ! You have it much better than them!
dont do it if you beleive in hell that where your going if you kill yourself please dont do it god is going decide when your going to die dont plan it yourself your time will come please dont suicide your too young
life is worth keeping, it is a precious gift. i felt like giving it all up when my x cheated on me, a year later i'm happy as can be. my daughter's best friend and her sister died in a car acident a year ago, my daughter was sitting right by them and was thrown out of the car, looked pretty bleak, ya know what, she's happy again. you never know what tomorrow will bring,. enjoy this great adventure, and if you have trouble controling your thoughts, get some help, parent, pastor, doctor, physcologist.
Honestly, posting that on Yahoo won't get you the help you need. Call the suicide hotline as soon as you can, and find a counselor to talk to.
I know this may seem hard for ou to do, but the best thing is to tell your parents. I know at this age they're "your worst enemy" but it really helps.
I'm 14, and i was exactly like you.
Cutting, suicidal, the whole shabang.
Until I decided to tell my parents.
They took me to a psychiatrist, and at first i hated it, but eventually, it turned out to be fun.
I feel a lot better now, and I'm really glad I told my parents.
If you don't want to do that, tell your best friend, or someone you trust a lot.
I did that before i told my parents, and that helped too,
but not as much as telling my parents did.
And make sure its someone you know is going to listen, cause if you tell someone who is not, they'll flip out, and be all weird.
Trust me.
Just don't commit suicide
Honey noone likes everything in their lives but those things will pass Dying is forever Is there anyone you can talk to? Please don't kill yourself
try it..if u survive tell me wht u did n il avoid doing tht..
ur 13 n so weak thrs no way u cud survive living in this big bad world..*thumbs up*
Hey, If you need someone to talk to ill write to you...I mean everyone needs someone to talk to and im willing to listen if you want to talk! PLease let me know cuz im always willing to talk to someone in need!
you need to talk to your parents if you cant talk to your school counciler in the am there is a happy life for you talk to an adult
Get help, get help now! I was in the same situation 15 years ago, I didn't think anything would ever get better even though everyone kept telling me that it would. Actually, things got a lot worse, I mean BAD. But, I stuck it out, as I got older I gained more personal control over my life and eventually things did get better, a lot better. I love my life now and I am happy. Get some support, go to a counselor, your parents, your friends parents, anyone. Another thing to consider...how do you know that things aren't worse on the other side? Maybe worse isn't imaginable right now, but trust me...you don't want to take that risk.
WOA, WOA, WOA >.< are you aware that this is a permanent solution to your problem??? If you are that depressed then why don't you talk it out with your friends and family? Or people you trust. Many others would be affected by this, and i doubt that any one wants to kill them self. Easy solutions are every where, from talking it out or to change you lifestyle to make yourself happier and less "suicidal". If those don't work out for you then there these real nice people I've heard of that take calls from people like you. And the best part is that its toll free =o so your parents wouldn't know about it, but the important thing is to choose your solution to your problem in a better way.
First off, good for you for recognizing this. I think you need to ask your parents for help. Maybe they can set you up with someone you can talk to. PLEASE don't take your life, I know it's hard being 13 and right now everything feels kind of hopeless, but I promise you things will get better. It's normal to be unhappy as a teen, it has a lot to do with hormones and just the fact that it's such a confusing time. There are always reasons to keep living! Life is such a beautiful thing, even when it doesn't feel like it. Think about the people you love and even the little things like what you like to watch on tv. You live in a place where you have so much freedom, and you can do almost anything you want with your life. You can be anything you want in this life, and you have another 80 years or so ahead of you - but you have to choose to stick around for it! The future is yours, and it's a gift, don't throw it away! Please know that so many people love and care about you, heck even I care! And I want you to stay on this earth, because it would be a sadder place without you. Now go talk to someone you trust about this so you can get help. If you need anything, feel free to email me through my profile.
Calm down, get a piece of paper and divide it into two columns. On the left write down things that make you unhappy, on the right the reasons why they make you unhappy. Then go through the reasons one by one. Can any of these causes be addressed? Can you think of solutions? Can you do anything about a particular thing? If yes, write down what you think you could do. For the causes that have 'no' as all the answers, put a line through them, you can't do anything about them anyway, so they are not your problem to deal with.
Now, take your list of things that you can deal with. Examine them closely. Pick one thing and decide that you are going to deal with this. You won't deal with any of the others until you have sorted this one out. Talk to people about it. Investigate it. Make it your project. And when you have done what you feel you need to do about it, put a line through it, call it sorted, and pick another thing on your list, and do the same again.
It will take some time until you work your way through the list, but you will feel ... better.
you have to tell your parents and if they won't get it, tell a teacher you like in school. Most people who attempt suicide regret it a minute later. You could be clinically depressed. You need therapy asap.
Your life right now is a bundle of confusion right? Can I share with you something? My daughter, at the age of 13 tried to commit suicide, came pretty close too. She was at a friends house and took pills and by the time I arrived at the hospital they said her kidneys were shutting down. She recovered, but spent time at a mental facility for her actions. I was so scared that I was gonna lose my baby, you just don't know what it's like to have that feeling. Please consider your parents in this, what it will do to them. Two years ago, this same daughter lost her best friend due to suicide, he jumped off a bridge and she was the last person to see him alive. She watched his mother at the funeral home say goodbye to her baby son, (he was 20) and told me later that she couldn't believe that she almost put me through that ordeal. **Please seek help, either through counsel, church, friends, parents, police or just expressing your thoughts here. I will talk with you if you need to. I have a yahoo address. take care sweetie
you sound just like my sister she used to do that. but your much too young to think about this. your at the age where everything should be easy no bills no job. think of all the good thing you will miss once you get older. dont do it.
There is a solution to everything except death.You can still turn your life around and make it better there are other persons that their lifes are worse then yours, and they still go on in life making themselfs stronger. By facing your problems you are preparing yourself for difficult problems in your future.The best thing to do is talk to your parents, get help from people you trust, try to face your problems, and think positive..
ok first of stay away frpm objects that will completly have controll of that you'll really kill yourself k then the 2nd thing is that you have to get rid of anything that is sharp alright and please dont do suicide plz.
i know you don't beleive me but i know that situation, i'm 14 and i cut and not one day goes by that i don't concider suicide even when i'm happy and its been like that for at least 6 months but i keep remembering my freinds and family care about me and that any amount of mistakes i make that could hurt them will not equal the hurt i would cause by killing myself