I feel like i always have to please everyone?!


Question: its really hard to do!!! i am so stressed because of it


Answers: its really hard to do!!! i am so stressed because of it

You have to look out for number 1, yourself. You've said it's hard to please everyone. It's true...because it's impossible. No matter what any one person possibility does in his/her lifetime, he/she cannot truly be able to please someone else cuz the average person is insatible. No matter what you do for a people, they'll always want more. And the more you do, the more they'll want and expect you to do. I've had to deal with that. I've let plenty of people walk all over me because i wanted to be nice and please them.

But at the end of the day, you have to ask yourself what good are you really doing by it? You say it's stressing you. So it can't be a good thing. You live this life for yourself. It's very considerate to want to look after someone else, but you can't possibly give everybody everything. and you shouldn't even try, especially if it does have you stressed out. So they'll have to understand that you have to live for you and you just can't do everything to make them happy. They'll hate it, they'll probably hate you, but if they do, that'll only prove they were around cuz you do what they like you to do. But it's not worth it to try so hard to bring contentment to someone else, when you're not even content yourself. Get what YOU need first and foremost and don't try to go beyond your limit. It's YOUR happiness that counts most.

im the same way you are...its hard to be yourself and make friends like this so stop pleasing everyone and please yourself first.

You have to realize that you CAN'T please everyone...it will only cause you a lot of anxiety and frustration...exactly what you are experiencing now.
This task is IMPOSSIBLE and cannot be accomplished by anyone..so don't even try it...you are wasting YOUR time and will only set yourself up for a big disappointment and let down.
You can make the choice to fight your own mental battles and this is one that you'll never, ever win.
It's nice of you to be the kind of person to want to please everyone and it's nice of you to try...but you must be kind to yourself and doing this sort of thing will leave you almost hating yourself...
Quit while you're ahead...do what is right for you, and stop worrying about everybody else.

Although it is very important to be a good person and make life easy for everyone in this crazy/hectic world, it's also important for you to be happy. This is your life. It was given to you and you need to live it the way you want to. if you want to spend it pleasing others have at it, but you still need to have self happy time for you to enjoy yourself. Go shopping, go tanning, eat some ice cream, repaint your house and redecorate it., just do stuff for you!!

Well then stop.....I can feel your tension over here ....Please
God that's it ....every one Else can wait in line.....Is it school..
ya school teachers can stress you out,but just remember for every problem theirs a solution...didn't give up the fight just be you......cause you sure don't wanna look 108 years old don't stress.......and leave your parents alone you know they cant be that bad ......look at you genius what....ya

im the same as you but i got told that it dosent matter what you do to please one person it will anoy some one else and so its really not worth the stress pleasing every one all that time, please the ones that are nice and caring towards you ok!
xxXxx

you dont! PLEASEEE reply to my message i sent u on myspace jenna, pleaseee





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