Why cant i just cry anymore?!
Question: I dont get it. I just cant cry. Last year, It was like at least twice a week i would have someone hurt me, and just be able to cry . but now i just cant . Why? I want to so badly, I miss crying, because it makes you feel better, but i havent been able to in over 6 months, and believe me i do have many problems to cry over. But now i have to find other ways to feel better, like cutting, taking pills, and i just want to go back to being able to cry again, but i physically just cant. What do i do ? Why is this happening?
Answers: I dont get it. I just cant cry. Last year, It was like at least twice a week i would have someone hurt me, and just be able to cry . but now i just cant . Why? I want to so badly, I miss crying, because it makes you feel better, but i havent been able to in over 6 months, and believe me i do have many problems to cry over. But now i have to find other ways to feel better, like cutting, taking pills, and i just want to go back to being able to cry again, but i physically just cant. What do i do ? Why is this happening?
Last week my doctor told me I needed a good cry that way it would release some of the pressure that causes self harm. She said it doesn't matter how you start crying - watch a real weepy film or listen to sentimental music (not depressing stuff though!) then if the tears get flowing then just feed other stuff into it and ta da! you have had a rush of endorphins cut free :)
I don't know butI think you're brave
i don't know. it's like the country's having a plague. i haven't cried in so long.
omg!
u cutt your wrist!?
DO NOT DO THAT ANYMORE!!!!!
u should just not cry or cut yourself cuz if u get to your vaine u can DIE!
stop doing that! pleeeaaase?
did you stop listening to emo music?
its because, even thought u want to cry, there really is no reason why deep inside, also ur expecting tears to run down ur face, and usually u just naturally cry without having to think of it. I know that everybody needs to cry once in a while, but trust me, u'd rather be happy/regular, then to be hurt and crying all the time.
You are over stressed.
Please go see a minister at a nearby church, or a doctor.
Please do NOT do cutting or pills.
You REALLY need to talk to someone.
Here's the problem........the WORLD - especially the "teen world" has gotten to the point where everyone wants people to feel sorry for them...........WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS.......GET OVER IT.
I've had cancer.
I have a son who is a drug addict and disappeared over 2 years ago.
My other son is going to Iraq.
We lost our home...............
Live life and enjoy what you HAVE and get over it.
for 1 do not cutt yourself!and 2 do not take pills.if you want to cry and cant it proboly has something to do with your eyes maybe dryed eyes or somthing try going to an eye doctor
OMG! DONT CUT!!! i have scars on my arm from about 5 years ago when i cut and i regret it EVERYDAY!!! i got help for my cutting problem through mental therapy and it helps so much! you should get help like that too... and your not crazy because you go... your just getting help.
All i can say is get help! Tak to someone whos not in your family who doesnt know anyone you know... They REALLY can help!
stop cutting and taking pills and GROW UP
My friend used to cry all the time because it made her feel better (according to her.) Then it stopped and she couldn't anymore... you know why?
--> She grew up!
Grow up! Stop cutting yourself because you'll regret it later (unsightly scares!)
And you'll become pill-dependent and have that overmedicated look that will cause people to avoid you, which in turn will make you depressed and will push to do more idiotic stuff.
Honey please grow up! We all have our share of horrible problems, but we can't let it get to us! You have to be strong for yourself because if you don't love yourself, who will?
And please, Please, PLEASE see a counselor!
As we age, our perception of sorrow changes related to experiences lived through. Also, as we age, sometimes painful experiences leave us numb and unable to express any emotion.
I used to cry over many bad things I witnessed and lived through, then I went through a period where I was too numb and dumb founded to show emotion. Once I got through that phase, I now notice that I cry easy for injustices that happen to others, but cannot cry for myself. I think it is because now I am the only one who is going to resolve conflicts and problems and crying just serves no purpose.
It's a world depression, this not crying... this year is sort of a 'mellow' 'driveby' 'silent depression' year...
I've got friends who cut themselves years ago and have long, deep scars...
STOP CUTTING AND STOP TAKING PILLS AND GROW UP
Maybe you're just numb now. Or maybe you just WANT to cry but you don't NEED to. Try focusing on the positive.
Pills are dangerous - aside from the risk of death by overdose, you can also experience renal or liver failure in the future - even after you have stopped taking the pills. When you cut, unless you're taking care to clean, disinfect and cover the cuts, you could end up with an infection. Untreated that could easily end up turning into septicaemia - a life threatening blood infection.
Try talking to a friend or family member and see if it helps. If you can't, there is always Befrienders Worldwide. You can contact someone by phone, letter or email just to chat and get things off your chest.
i feel the same way! i just realized it the other night...then something happened...(wrestler got suspended and just the timing and it hurt a lot) so i came to my room and just cried...it wasn't only for that but it was for a lot of things ya know...i actually woke up the next morning feeling better(not better because i was upset but i phsyically felt better) i do cut...i guess it's a stage of depression or something...try and watch a movie a sad one...and get really into it...just you and the movie and nothing more...see what happens...good luck and feel better!
Crying is a natural function, since you can't just go to a doctor, they might be able to help or go to websites that may give information about things like this. And people do go to the doctors for the silliest things that can be big problems.
Your body has built an immunity to crying. Its ok to cry every once in a while but its not healthy to cry all the time. There has got to be other things in life you can focus on to make you feel better. When you feel good about yourself and life, and you get your feelings hurt. Then you can cry easily but if you do it all the time or want to, its just not the same. My sister was the same way and I miss her sooo much, if I only knew she needed help, I would have been there in a heartbeat!!! Please take care of yourself or at least ask someone who cares for you for help. You are not alone and should understand that crying all the time is not a good thing...
First of all, many people care for you. That's a given. There are times when you feel like nobody does, but there's always somebody who cares about you. It seems like you were crying too much, and now you almost have an immunity to tears. To replace crying, find something that makes you truly happy, and fill your life with these things. Maybe adopt a pet. Working out also helps to ease anxiety. I know you will feel better in no time!
I am all alone too. My children grew up, are well adjusted and busy with their own families (I do visit and am involved). I do not seem to be what guys are looking for- so I throw myself into my work that is helping others. I come home and I enjoy a variety of hobbies (gardening, writing, riding my bike). Though I have friends and family who care they live far away and I am truly alone. It is better than being in an unhealthy relationship. I still wish I could meet someone, but it is not the end of my world- that is such a small part of who I am.
Same happened to me, without the cutting or pills, that's really bad for you. But just wait a little longer, trust me it will happen soon.<3
P.S.-DONT CUT OR TAKE PILLS, PLEASE!!