Im really worried about my Sister in Law?!
Question: My sisiter in law has started acting really strange.
she is a very selfish person anyway and manipulative. but lately it takes the piss! she is married with 2 children but you wouldnt think it the way she behaves. she has no concept of money, there at risk of losing their house and she books a week long course 200 miles away to 'channel her psychic abilities'. she thinks she's a medium/clairvoyant and shes gifted. she has no respect for anyone else other than herself, and everything is on her terms. you cant disagree with anything she says. ive tried the family's tried but she doesnt listen to us. its like she's in a world of her own.
shes now thinking of leaving her husbad and children to go live in Ireland with some dude that she met on the course.apparently they were lovers in a past life!
My husband thinks she's bipolar, but i dont think so.
Does anyone have some input?
What ive said here is nothing! Theres tons of crazy stuff!!
Thanx xxx
Answers: My sisiter in law has started acting really strange.
she is a very selfish person anyway and manipulative. but lately it takes the piss! she is married with 2 children but you wouldnt think it the way she behaves. she has no concept of money, there at risk of losing their house and she books a week long course 200 miles away to 'channel her psychic abilities'. she thinks she's a medium/clairvoyant and shes gifted. she has no respect for anyone else other than herself, and everything is on her terms. you cant disagree with anything she says. ive tried the family's tried but she doesnt listen to us. its like she's in a world of her own.
shes now thinking of leaving her husbad and children to go live in Ireland with some dude that she met on the course.apparently they were lovers in a past life!
My husband thinks she's bipolar, but i dont think so.
Does anyone have some input?
What ive said here is nothing! Theres tons of crazy stuff!!
Thanx xxx
Of course you should encourage her to go to Ireland, but also encourage her to divorce her husband first, and give him full custody of their children.
Problem solved.
she isnt mentally ill, she's just selfish like you said. if she wont listen to anyone then all you can do is let her get on with it. she'll get her cummupance.
Is your brother her husband? if so, stand by him and help in any way possible. Encourage him to leave this nut bag and try to provide a normal decent life for his kids.
She should be checked out by a physician. She may indeed be bi-polar. It runs in my family. However, I had a neighbor up and leave her husband and two daughters and move to the UK to live with some dude she met on-line. Its a crazy world out there. Don't give up on your sis in-law just yet.
sounds like she thinks the grass is greener on the other side - best to let her go and concentrate on your brother and the children good luck
It certainly sounds like she's in the grip of a manic fantasy. Speak to her doctor.
Iam going to risk saying that the problem lies in her moods, that her feelings do not stop where everyone elses seem to, thus that she is bipolar. The spending loosely, the thoughts of greatness,the illicit relationship and profoundly the inability to listen to her very own family that she is putting onto the street. While we all can be selfish and refuse to care, we still can see that our actions are infact outting others. Choosing not to listen is one thing over an issue, even not showing respect over an issue, but to not have any respect at all is another item. For such a bad relationship, I don't hear her anger, she's happy instead and has her own plans in progress.....where is the anger? U C what Iam saying? Constant upheaval, unable to be stable in mood, decision, thought combined with beliefs of greatness. I say call Charter. Sorry if I seem to harsh, I don't mean it like that okay, it's just I think she's got an issue here. Try to find a book on being bipolar, in order to help u understand and be able to cope better. Chances are she really doesn't see the disorder or upheaval she is causing, so go gentle and easy.
you know what it sounds like somebody at work that had symptoms more or less the same as that carried lots of money n would spend it like it was going out of fashion not in a well paid job and was hiding it from his partner things like that any many more. His partner visited a councillor that referred him to see professional people like psychiatrist etc in the end he has been diagnosed with a mental problem . But with the help of others his problems are now not has bad maybe your brother should get advice to see if she can be helped
is she fat !!
my sister is fat and she acts like this , i thinks its the food!